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rough time

rough time

is anyone around to talk to atm

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thanks @Former-Member and you being here is enough
everything is hard and tiring, even the taking it as easch day comes- which i know you and others gets too. just sick of it all and being a nothing.
must be a thing for april with these services!
i kinda wish the dental stuff was alot sooner though, they are ki**ing me even with strong pain relief which does make me a little drowsy so actually helped with sleep last night.

how are you? did you get some sleep?

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Hi lil Sis @outlander

I agree with @Former-Member. You are dealing with so much stress constantly. Let these things that are happening happen in their own time. Deal with what you can now. In this moment. For you that is all you can do with so much on your young shoulders. I know you feel like you are nothing, but that is only to your family. Unfortunately, you don't get to choose them. In time, life for you will be very different. And much better. Remember too you have the right to say no or not right now.

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Perhaps raise it with them @outlander ?

@Sans911 @Former-Member are good supports too 🙂

You are an inspiration with what you go through and the load you carry. Keep on keeping on my friend.

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its really hard to stay in the present, ive been dissociating alot or stressing to much ahead either one. the pain im in atm isnt helping with that though even though the gp gave me stronger pain relief, ive taken that an hr ago and hasnt helped yet.
the days seem to go so slowly lately even if they are even more pressurised than usual. its not just family im not good enough for either, i found out this morning that i wont be doing peer work anymore either. they have replaced me with someone else.
i hope that one day things will be better. one day......

how are you going sis? how was yesterdays game night and meeting? @Sans911

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i cant @MDT i need to just focus on one thing with her atm which is exposure work along with coping methods for that. ive only got the 10 sessions so need to make them count somehow

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Did you get a reason why you were replaced as a peer worker? That is a shame, as I'm sure you would be good at that. But perhaps you have too much on your plate already. There's nothing I can really say to make things feel good or right, but I know I believe in time you will find peace and a life worth living.

My games night last night was a small group - just 6 of us when there is usually 10 or so. I played Scrabble with another lady, and the others played a card game and another game. I had a volunteer meeting this morning, and volunteer work at the op shop this afternoon. It's all been ok but I'm very tired and flat. I went back to sleep this morning 3 x times as I was so tired. I could go to sleep right now too. But it's too early yet.

So I'm relaxing for a bit atm, trying to think of something to eat. Don't know if I can be bothered much.

@outlander

Evening also to @Zoe7 @MDT @Faith-and-Hope @CheerBear @Teej @Snowie @Shaz51 @Appleblossom

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yes they did give a reason @Sans911 but i cant say much about it here as its not something that is usual in the way it was being done. your probably right, too much happening as it is let alone with another role to do.

your games night sounds good and a good but tiring day today. i only had toast tonight too and heated some leftovers for pop, couldnt be bothered making much either.


do you have a lot to do tomorrow?

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Catching up with my foster sister as she's come up to the city. And a volunteer event in the afternoon for a couple of hours @outlander

What about you?

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sounds good @Sans911

so far ive got a quiet morning but at the horses tomorrow to watch the kids ride. so still a fairly quiet day before the week starts up again. have another week full of appointments again.

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Yeah, you sound very busy sweetheart. Please take care with driving. Try to get some rest here and there.

@outlander

Can and sit with me while I unpack a little. Jasper is being very demanding so you can take care of him
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