outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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Hey @outlander. I'm around (probably). What's happening for you tonight?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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hey @CheerBear
im just struggling to cope with everything thats happening esp the expectations and pressures as well.
im just struggling to cope with everything thats happening esp the expectations and pressures as well.
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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There's a lot on you to deal with @outlander, from outside and inside it seems 🙁 Was there anything in particular that happened today (if you can and would like to share)?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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mm theres nothing in particular that happened today but its more in general and its building up.
the pressures and expectations from family and that includes siblings as they can be quite hard going kinda like today. everyone seems to want something but thats all i am good for.
im so stressed and scared about april, and november and in october theres a very big special event in the family that im involved in but its got mum stressed as its her thing (sorry very vague there) and she contacts me about it all the time.- only when she wants something.
but more so april and novemeber are bigger for me anyway and are the most stressful/scary ones.
there just seems to be things happening all the time. all next week ive got an appointment or pop does each day again and this week he will also be undergoing more of the dementia testing as well.
the pressures and expectations from family and that includes siblings as they can be quite hard going kinda like today. everyone seems to want something but thats all i am good for.
im so stressed and scared about april, and november and in october theres a very big special event in the family that im involved in but its got mum stressed as its her thing (sorry very vague there) and she contacts me about it all the time.- only when she wants something.
but more so april and novemeber are bigger for me anyway and are the most stressful/scary ones.
there just seems to be things happening all the time. all next week ive got an appointment or pop does each day again and this week he will also be undergoing more of the dementia testing as well.
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MDTSenior Contributor
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What's happening in those months @outlander?
If you want to share of course.
If you want to share of course.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@CheerBear
sorry forgot to tag in previous post
@MDT
april is invasive womens health testing
novemeber is a surgury
sorry forgot to tag in previous post
@MDT
april is invasive womens health testing
novemeber is a surgury
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MDTSenior Contributor
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Fair enough @outlander
That makes sense you feel this way. You still seeing a psych at headspace?
That makes sense you feel this way. You still seeing a psych at headspace?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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yeah @MDT
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Former-Member @Sans911 @Snowie thinking of you too, hoping your alright 
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Unknown userMember
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@outlander 🤗🌸💕
I am around this evening for a while if you need to talk. I may not have a lot to say though unfortunately. But I will try. Sorry to hear you are feeling overwhelmed with everything in general right now. You are certainly dealing with a lot. But the emphasis is definitely that ... you ARE dealing with a lot. You are getting through and you are strong. Try not to look too far ahead for now .. just deal with today tomorrow next week. April October and November will come soon enough, without us trying to play heavily on our mind even sooner. Hmmm, actually April is likely to be when my postponed apt from yesterday will be too. Trying not to think too far ahead for now. Getting through tonight, then tomorrow.
Sherry
