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Oh dear @outlander re: your pop. That sounds frustrating. Is it because he can't stand you to bother cooking, or he just prefers that? I'm pretty OK with what most people serve to me except for chilly, spicy foods. And there's other stuff, but I'm usually OK saying not for me, no thanks.
My foster sister is a really good cook. She doesn't often cook make dessert, except on special occasions. She does make yummy slices and recently made rum balls which are delicious.
Just letting you know I've taken my meds hun. It's getting late your way too lil Sis.
I love these 'normal' but sometimes random conversations between us. It's so nice to put aside, just for a little while our mental health bs.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Hes old and set in his ways @Sans911 i guess he just prefers those sorts of foods but ive been trying other things out and hes taken to a few which is good. Sometimes its me though and i just cant be bothered cooking anything.
I make chocolate balls they are similar to the rum ones but are more kid friendly. They are always the first thing to go when i make them.
I thought you may have been getting ready fo bed. Its just past 1 here but im not ready for bed yet. I have the fidgets lol.
Yes normal convos are good and random ones work a treat sometimes dont they!
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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I'm going to go now lil Sis as I didn't have the best nights sleep last night. I'm starting to nod off. I hope you get to sleep soon my angel. Goodnight @outlander
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Goodnight sis 😴💜💙
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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Evening lil Sis @outlander
Just dropping in to say I'm doing OK tonight. I had a panicky health scare with Jasper, but turns out wasn't nearly as bad as they said it could be over the phone.
That's rattled me the most today, and left me exhausted. I'm on bed now, have taken prn to help me calm and get to sleep.
I hope your day wasn't too horrible. Goodnight sweetie
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Goodnight sis Hugs and hugs ❤ ❤ ❤
So proud of you for getting through today and im glad Jaspers ok @Sans911
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Former-Member ❤ 👋
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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Hey @outlander. Just wanted to call by and send some ❤. It's hard when words are letting us down or dont want to work well. Thinking you might be going through a bit of that at the moment maybe?
Hugs x
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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thanks @CheerBear yeah thats whats pretty much happening. it sucks. i dont want to be the person with all the problems. not even sure if theres anything right with me. 😞
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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You're definitely not alone with having problems @outlander but you have been and do go through a lot. It is hard when things feel constant and when we feel totally flattened by them.
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