outlanderSenior Contributor
rough time
is anyone around to talk to atm
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rough time
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MDTSenior Contributor
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No reason to apologise @outlander
We've all been there. It's nothing I can't handle anyway. I got called a Communist by someone I rang at my old job once before.
How are you today? Doing anything for yourself?
We've all been there. It's nothing I can't handle anyway. I got called a Communist by someone I rang at my old job once before.
How are you today? Doing anything for yourself?
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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thanks for understanding @MDT
Just mostly cleaning today, mostly the front and backyard and having a cleanout so advertising things as well. and the horses later as well.
anything planned for you?
Just mostly cleaning today, mostly the front and backyard and having a cleanout so advertising things as well. and the horses later as well.
anything planned for you?
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MDTSenior Contributor
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Selling some old stuff aye @outlander?
I would do the same but none of my stuff is of any value lol
Just catching up with folks today for me. They got back from China today.
Also just booking in stuff for Poland. Hopefully have a job there sorted soon.
I would do the same but none of my stuff is of any value lol
Just catching up with folks today for me. They got back from China today.
Also just booking in stuff for Poland. Hopefully have a job there sorted soon.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Nah just donating most @MDT but its on like a paying it forward site on fb
Some things like wedding accessories and formal wear are for sale but the rest im just giving away.
Cool sounds like a good day. Hope you enjoy the time with your parents
Some things like wedding accessories and formal wear are for sale but the rest im just giving away.
Cool sounds like a good day. Hope you enjoy the time with your parents
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MDTSenior Contributor
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I've seen that sort of stuff on fb before yeah @outlander
I sold some old uni textbooks from the first year of my old uni course through one of them. Useful stuff.
You too. Take it easy on yourself 🙂
I sold some old uni textbooks from the first year of my old uni course through one of them. Useful stuff.
You too. Take it easy on yourself 🙂
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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No lessons to be learned my angel. Far better to explode than implode. And you were having a vent, something we all need to do from time to time.
I'm just having a rest after vacuuming the car. Then I need to repack the stuff from the car boot sale into a sensible order so I can sell it. The house needs a desperate clean, but a vacuum will have to suffice for now.
I have my psychologist later this afternoon & then someone is coming to be interviewed about the house sit.
@outlander
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
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No need for apology with me @outlander
I liked @Former-Member post and agree with @Sans911 re better exploding verbally much better than imploding. It is the healthy alternative. Dont worry.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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thanks for understanding @Appleblossom 
and yes self regulating is a hard skill to learn (re other thread) i have been super busy today and still not quite finished.....
@Sans911youve been pretty busy today. will be around if you need to chat about your sessions
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
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@outlander Hi outlander have just been reading what is going on for you and had a thought which may or may not help you. I have applied for 'Victims of Crime' counselling because of the violence in the home when son2 was really ill. If there was any violence, or a occurance which was aggressive to you (where you were a victim or witness someone else be a victim) you can apply for this and it gives you 22 free psych sessions. I don't know if it applys to you .... just a thought.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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hi @Bunniekins and thank you
i would be able to go through that however i dont really want to talk about that trauma so its abit of a tricky thing to work around. they expect you to talk about the trauma that you put down on the forms and unfortunatly the dog attack doesnt count as any of their catagories which i get totally. im going to just have to manage the best i can without it. hopefully next year will be more successul.
i would be able to go through that however i dont really want to talk about that trauma so its abit of a tricky thing to work around. they expect you to talk about the trauma that you put down on the forms and unfortunatly the dog attack doesnt count as any of their catagories which i get totally. im going to just have to manage the best i can without it. hopefully next year will be more successul.
