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Tigga321Senior Contributor
Hello,
i am having very dark thoughts from sexual,physical and mental abuse, from childhood and marriage, I can't stop them, my mind just keeps remembering them,I'm not sleeping and all I'm doing is crying all day and night.
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
I’m okay tonight @Ant7 ..... had a bit of a health scare last week that has left me a bit rattled, but it turns out that it’s not serious .... just have to manage my energy and stress levels as best I can until it settles down and hopefully goes away.
I walked a lot today, in bits and pieces, so feeling physically tired, which is good.
How are you going ?
Were you able to keep yourself busy today @Tigga321 ?
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Ant7Senior Contributor
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
@Tigga321 ...... 💕
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Tigga321Senior Contributor
Hello,
I hope you all get a little light shine in your hearts today.
I have been reading around the other threads, I wish I had good advise for some of them. I'm fairly useless
Im sorry, I'm just hopeless at helping anyone I'm scared I'll say something to hurt them. Yeah that's me just so
Just yeah., Everthing hubby told me I was.. I am. I can't get past this bit. Jeez, I must have been really bad somewhere along my life to cop it so bad, I must have been cursed by someone,
So emotional tears I hat it so much.
. Tender thoughts only Grandy
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
@Tigga321 I love your new avatar .... ❣️
Hon, while you’re feeling the way you are, you’re here for support for yourself rather than worrying about giving support to others. The fact that you are here and sharing your story is support enough (validation, and giving a voice) to others in, or coming out of domestic abuse situations.
Please keep reading around the other threads and soaking in the love and care you read there .... it’s for you too .... all part of the healing journey you are starting out on now.
💐💜💕
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outlanderSenior Contributor
well said @Faith-and-Hope
hello @Tigga321 i second what F&H has said, i love your new avatar too! i really hope that things will start to improve for you soon. 
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Tigga321Senior Contributor
Hello,
so di I, because I'm really over all this heartache, and pain.
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
Hi @Tigga321 .... 👋
Good to see you ....
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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