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A week ago my 21 year old gay aspy son was drugged and sexually used by an older man he met online. He is not terrified and in hospital in psychosis. He was a virgin and went online to chat with other inexperienced men about hobbies and gay marriage etc. I saw the chats after. I'm heartbroken. I'm terrified. He had finally got into university and started and now this. Any advice? I feel like our lives just became a nightmare and I don't know how I will keep him safe or even deal with his return home, medication etc. I'm 52 and thought finally my husband and I were heading towards some freedom. I'm tired overwhelmed and crying slot. I feel sick about what happened and in shock over the psychosis.
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