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Let's make Christmas fun

Let's make Christmas fun

Good morning Forum Land,
Just in case you didn't know, it is two weeks until Christmas. I'm super excited!!! Christmas can be SUCH a hard time of the year. As many of you know, I have no family or friends, and consequently I will be spending Christmas day alone, just like I spend every other day of the year alone. However, this will be the twentieth Christmas that I have spent by myself and I kind-of have the hang of it now. It used to be excruciating, but over the years I have developed my own way of navigating the day. I have created family Christmas traditions...just without the family bit.

To all those Forumites who superly duperly struggle with Christmas, I get it. I really do. For many years it was a truly horrendous time of the year for me. But now I've learnt to make it a fun time in my own quirky way.

This is my first Christmas in Forum Land and I am super looking forward to counting down the days to Christmas here. I totally understand that this thread will not suit everyone. There are threads here and here, which focus on the challenging aspects of this time of year. My hope is that this thread can be a space where those of us who want to enjoy the fun parts of Christmas can do so. Christmas can be oh-so-hard...but despite my muddles and my social isolation, I choose to make Christmas fun. I superly duperly hope you will join me.

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i dont have a specific lover either @Former-Member but i love my forum family and even though they are virtual.. they are real people behind these screens and they mean a huge deal to me.

love is more than just a physical presence of someone being there for you, nah i beleive it goes alot deeper than that and the closeness and comfort i feel from my family here is enough to call it love

lol well thats my ramble for the night..

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Oh ..dear ..@adge .. um used to work with/for hilarious 2 man stand up comedy outfit ok posing as bricklayers lol one Slovenian the other Greek .. got buried under one liners lol
Ahh one of them mentioned xmas and told story about how he told his kids he ripped xmas out of the calendar so it didn't exist well had to be there guess plus he had money worries lol

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@outlander
Yep I understand & I agree with you, but I would like a off the screen huggable kissable skin & eyes & what ever else real life human or fairy or merman, or now I am getting bizzarrrr here woops! see what an over abundance of ice cream does to a health food fantatic!!
Hmmm I should edit this message but alas I shall not as I am having Christmas fun!
So there 😛

Marry me Outlander, only if you want to? 😛
Hahar
Cheeky me tonite!

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@outlander
Being serious now, what you wrote is from your heart, & very beautiful & I love you very much!
Bella XO 🙂

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lol yes someone in flesh is aslways best @Former-Member maybe one day

and thanks

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Meanwhile, in the northern hemisphere...

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@Former-Member
awwahhhhh you caught us/me/them/all in the act of having fun!!
Are we/us/me/them/I in trouble?
am going quietly on tippy toes to sit on chair in the corner of the room while sucking my thumb!
ok?
bye
naughty
Bella xo 🙂

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@frog

thank you so much..

this is my mum's favourite ....she is 91 and starting to fade I fear..I will also think of my twin and sons as I listen..

so thank you

bless you

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@Faith-and-Hope 😀 Hi hope things okay there

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Pretty much @TAB,thanks.

Been a busy day .... work in progress around here.

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