Glad there were no panic attacks @Jamc.
I was usually impressed how well I was treated at the 3 different gyms that I had membership in over 7 years.
Of course we will hit it off better with different people but I found them all committed to doing their best ... regardless whether they had a cert II in rehab or sports degree ... the better qualifications did make a difference at first while I got used to my set of injuries and the best way to manage them ... but after a few years and people move on ... I did well with just a cert II personal trainer consults. ... I started gym at a time when I was a serious physical wreck (and emotional) ... fibromyalgia through the roof ... hands curled and wrists so bad that could barely play the piano at all ... though my mother still kept trying to guilt me ... mind you I did not know that fancy fibromyalgia name at the time ... it was too painful to switch a light switch on and off.
The point I want to make after indulging my little whinge is that even though the people in gyms may be into being upbeat and looking good etc ... they are not necessarily superficial ... when they related to me most were sensitive and to the point ... I never felt unwelcome ... they also gave my son a youth memebersip for about 5 years and looked out for him after I stopped going ... so now when I feel pushed around by somebody I know that it is not "just me" that someone's behaviour is usually a little aggressive and out of order.