@Appleblossom I have done virtually all of that on my own. Hubs is happy to enjoy the garden and patiently listens to me wittering on about it, and doesn't mind me spending considerable chunks of money on it, but is not so hands on shall we say.
Since moving here I have personally shovelled out 19 cubic metres of soil, 12 cubic metres of mulch, 1 metre of pebbles which was by far the hardest! (for the wicking beds) moved those fruit boxes myself and built the wicking system, and built all of the timber framed side beds from sleepers, moved countless pieces of scrap timber, logs, scrap metal and junk, tree branches, pavers, loaded about 12 cubic metres of hard rubbish into skips, planted everything and I do all the mowing and weeding too.
Hubs did help me weed the vegie garden area when we first cleaned it up, dismantle the woodshed (truly horrible job), build the chicken coop and move the boulders.
I often say I don't care about help with things I can do myself, only when I CAN'T do it myself. He steps up when I need it but mostly I try to get stuff done on my own.