Child Loss & MH

That's a lovely post thank you @Appleblossom, sorry I can't [√] it with current tech glitches on this thread, I do support what you say, and your story and how you've held strong is important to me, teaches me, God knows I haven't had enough sisterly love in my life.

I know the distancing tge boys need to do. Not wanting to be seen as a "mummy's boy" and all. My x taught my kidz to disrespect me too. Is your sons dad around? A revelation came over me one day, that the reason my son was pulling away from me so hard in his teens & on, was not because he hated me but because

our bond was so strong.

This is a compliment to our parenting and at that moment I knew I had to let go more and more and let him learn to fly.

He still came to me over little things, usually how to handle breaking up with girls but even through the losses, he"s determination & self concept is strong.

I have a sensitive question I'll ask you later, on your fragile thread, abou RC IRCSA. A recent apology you might want me to copy it for you, or not. I had to leave church when it was being read out Sunday.

My Qld friend put flowers on my girls headstone for me for her birthday Sunday, and tx a photo for me. I'll post it here shortly maybe. Do you believe they see what we do for them? I like to think so, that time is very different in heaven and they can look in on us, with pure light.

You must tell me more about your 'lights' - haven't heard it that way before.

"Friends are the flowers

In the garden of life "

Have a good night Appleblossom, you make a differencedifference here xox

Yes the father is still around. From the sound of things, both our boys are going to be good decent men, which is a hard ask in a difficult world.

I can understand why you would feel a strong response to the recent Apology. It is difficult tterritory, but to give the church its due, they are actually apologising. In the end after reaching out to my mother for over 50 years, I had to say to her at least the Pope, and in your case, the church is acknowledging harm done, and making an apology. She never could, and resorted to teasing me about her neglects and issues. It was sad, cos I always hoped true love would win out, but mine did not, and even if nobody believes me, I know I was true.

You make a difference too. Without our connection, I may not have been able to hang on. Seriously.

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