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Gratitude

Gratitude

I have decided to start a gratitude 'journal' on here because I want to share the positives too not just when im at the bottom of the barrol and while im not out of that deep dark hole, I want others to share what they are gratiful of as well.

The first thing im grateful for is My work (my second job), after speaking to my boss about the chores that need to be done over next week/s, ive realised just how muhc trust she has in me. Something I never thought someone could be able to truly do when I hardly trust myself.

so a lot of you know who I am and that I have a second job. Some of you may know what a farmhand is while others go huh....

so in light of the people I trusted turning and saying that I need to get a job, I had some free time on my hands today and actually sat down and wrote out what it is that I do and the next time someone times me its not a job Ill be telling them where to shove it.

I dont need to write everything down but will dot point down the roles/responisibilities that I have being a farmhand- or second in charge.

  • There are 2 separate paddocks and they both require fencing checks, which involves on the good days (weather wise) or at least every second day a walk around the entire propert (both of them) checking for any fences that are broken or down and also checking the electric fencing units and noting which ones need batteries replaced. Every other day or on crappy rainy or extremly hot days its a drive anywhere the car is accessable to check the fencing and their units. Im not required to fix the fence unless something minor, as my bosses hubby does the fencing but thats on his days off his proper work/job
  • Check each horse on the property (around 120), not go and check specifically each horse unless noticing something wrong, so just noting them and doing a head count per paddock each paddock check
  • ive been entrusted 4 horses into my care which we call the holiday care as the owners are still required to check their horses at least once a week, with sometimes more during xmas and other special occasions and their associated holidays. Duties for this includes, scrubbing bathtubs (if requested and paid extra for) paddock cleaning (if requested and paid extra for, plus other clients on the properties) feeding and rugging with their general needs being met.
  • Talking to clients and as theirs 120 horses who knows who ill meet in the day however most still go to my boss for their problems.
  • Horse handling. If people require someone to hold their horses for vets, farriers, dentitsts or worming or other services im the first one thats given the chance to do this (extra $)
  • feed orders. Every few weeks I organise a feed truck so have to communicate and write down orders and take cash etc so organise the amounts of each feed for the feed business and let everyone know when the orders will be delivered.
  • When my boss goes away, im first in charge so the background stuff she does comes to me for the amount of time shes away.

So out of all that im very grateful she has put her trust in someone who is young (and who doesnt turst themselves) and has allowed me to grow and learn in this role.

Thank you to everyone who just read all that!!!

will try to get better pics when its not raining!

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thanks @Meowmy your so kind, I am your friend indeed & I'm grateful you're my buddy too! I have some difficult relationships (my mother is difficult) but other good ones, I've worked hard on them & medication has helped a lot. That would be exciting to get your own flat, I like living alone it's nice & quiet. I hope your brother is helpful in caring for your mum - you're a very good daughter to take care of her, that's not easy.

thanks @Lea02 I went thru 7 years of having no family relationships due to mental illness but now things are better, especially on meds. Well done on building yourself a wonderful, warm family, I really respect that. I'm single so it's just me & the cat but I do really enjoy my nephews.

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Today I am Grateful for:
- my health
- friends
- meaning in life

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Thats wonderful @BryanaCamp , thanks for sharing. You're blessed to hav ur 2 aunts. And wonderful that u hav an improved relationship with ur sister.

Im grateful for my mum. She has had significant MH battles throughout her life but is in a rly good place now in that way and is such a wonderful support to me. I am at her place as we speak, we are both knitting and chatting away. Shes a real blessing to me.

@outlander @MDT @Meowmy @Lea02

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Thats wonderful @Lea02. Im so happy for u in regard to your relationship with ur hubby and sons, that is rly special. Im sorry to hear about ur family, but it sounds like u hav come to terms with it now, as best u can neway, and take great solace in the love u hav with ur husband and sons.

I know my husband loves me dearly, i wish he cld show it a little more through a bit more involvement in my MH struggles, and compassion towards me. However, i am very grateful that he attended an appointment i had ystrday with my psychiatrist bcoz i was so scared about this particular appt, and it was a real.blessing having him there with me.

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I am grateful that my beloved dog is still with us and tho she is not out of the woods yet, at this stage it looks like she wont need surgery which is a blessing!

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hey guys its been a while since weve posted here. i hope that posting now will encourage others to rejoin in as well.


@Lee82 @Former-Member @gem80 @BPDSurvivor @Owlunar @oceangirl @Molliex @Angels333 @eth @Maggie @Former-Member @Faith-and-Hope @Shaz51 @Jacques @TAB @BlueBay @Bunniekins maybe you guys might like to join in here too

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@NatureLover @Lee71 @Adge @Former-Member @Meowmy @Former-Member @s-jay @Former-Member

so simple, just each day you can write here to say what your grateful for. even just one thing

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grateful for @NatureLover





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Lovely @Lee71

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Good morning friends, I am grateful for all of you and your continued support and friendship also I am greatful for my paint pour room that even at 2 am can calm me down.

@outlander @Lee71 @Doglover @MDT @BryanaCamp @Lee82 @NatureLover @Snowie @Angels333 @Shaz51 @Fluttershy1 @Zoe7 @Sans911 @mudsum @SpiderLady @eth @The-red-centaur @Eden1919 @Purplerain @Former-Member

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