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Gratitude

Gratitude

I have decided to start a gratitude 'journal' on here because I want to share the positives too not just when im at the bottom of the barrol and while im not out of that deep dark hole, I want others to share what they are gratiful of as well.

The first thing im grateful for is My work (my second job), after speaking to my boss about the chores that need to be done over next week/s, ive realised just how muhc trust she has in me. Something I never thought someone could be able to truly do when I hardly trust myself.

so a lot of you know who I am and that I have a second job. Some of you may know what a farmhand is while others go huh....

so in light of the people I trusted turning and saying that I need to get a job, I had some free time on my hands today and actually sat down and wrote out what it is that I do and the next time someone times me its not a job Ill be telling them where to shove it.

I dont need to write everything down but will dot point down the roles/responisibilities that I have being a farmhand- or second in charge.

  • There are 2 separate paddocks and they both require fencing checks, which involves on the good days (weather wise) or at least every second day a walk around the entire propert (both of them) checking for any fences that are broken or down and also checking the electric fencing units and noting which ones need batteries replaced. Every other day or on crappy rainy or extremly hot days its a drive anywhere the car is accessable to check the fencing and their units. Im not required to fix the fence unless something minor, as my bosses hubby does the fencing but thats on his days off his proper work/job
  • Check each horse on the property (around 120), not go and check specifically each horse unless noticing something wrong, so just noting them and doing a head count per paddock each paddock check
  • ive been entrusted 4 horses into my care which we call the holiday care as the owners are still required to check their horses at least once a week, with sometimes more during xmas and other special occasions and their associated holidays. Duties for this includes, scrubbing bathtubs (if requested and paid extra for) paddock cleaning (if requested and paid extra for, plus other clients on the properties) feeding and rugging with their general needs being met.
  • Talking to clients and as theirs 120 horses who knows who ill meet in the day however most still go to my boss for their problems.
  • Horse handling. If people require someone to hold their horses for vets, farriers, dentitsts or worming or other services im the first one thats given the chance to do this (extra $)
  • feed orders. Every few weeks I organise a feed truck so have to communicate and write down orders and take cash etc so organise the amounts of each feed for the feed business and let everyone know when the orders will be delivered.
  • When my boss goes away, im first in charge so the background stuff she does comes to me for the amount of time shes away.

So out of all that im very grateful she has put her trust in someone who is young (and who doesnt turst themselves) and has allowed me to grow and learn in this role.

Thank you to everyone who just read all that!!!

will try to get better pics when its not raining!

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@frog hello and have a great day.I am grateful to be out for lunch and walk

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@Meowmy @outlander @Bunniekins @MDT @frog

Hi all, I think this is a really good thread. I am honestly struggling to find anything to b grateful for as i am really struggling at the moment, however this will help me be more mindful of things to be grateful for, and when i come up with some, i will post them here. So thanks!

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@outlander @Meowmy @Bunniekins @MDT @frog

I am grateful for my beautiful dog, and that she is ok. I took her for a run a cpl of days ago (she chases the ball with 200% vigour and enthusiasm) and later that day she started limping. We checked her paws and all fine there. We hav refrained from exercise for her over the last couple of days and the limp has all but gone. She must hav just jarred something. I am grateful that it was only something minor and that she is well and truly on the mend!

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@Doglover
Dogs are great. Atm the neighbours dog is struggling to be on its own. It's a nice white Labrador, he is very friendly. I had to jump the fence today to remove some stuff he could have found dangerous 😮
He doesn't know it, but he is lucky for me haha.

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@Doglover Hi Doglover we haven't spoken before but I have seen your posts :). Really happy that you pup is on the mend and will soon be going for walks with you again. I have a pet rabbit and one time he fractured his leg and it had to be bandaged up for weeks he was not a happy bunny ..... but now you wouldn't know it he is running around my feet as I write this like they cheeky boy that he is 🙂

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@MDT

Oh thats so sad. I feel so sorry for dogs that r left on thr own for long periods, or dont cope well on thr own. Im just a sucker for dogs rly. If i cld giv a loving home to every dog that doesnt hav one i wld! I just love them to bits! As u say, ur neighbours dog is lucky to have you! Do u try n keep him company at all? Or is that a bit hard given that ud hav to tresspass on thr property!

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@MDT

The dog is lucky that you look out for him. Would you be able to ask the owner if you could take him for a walk/swim etc??

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Maybe soon. They are here today OG @oceangirl
But we didn't speak to them. Mum spoke to the kid. Dunno if that will do anything. But it seems okay now which is good.
The dog is really friendly. Made me miss my old dog lol.
How are you today?

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Thanks @frog @Appleblossom for ur support, sorry if i missed anyone.

Hi @Bunniekins , thank u for ur kind sentiments. Im so glad my baby is nearly better! I love her so much, too much i think. Your poor baby, glad ur little bunny is all mended and back to his normal self. My baby is cheeky too, and obnoxious. Shes a very funny girl. She has brought my husband and i lot of joy (not so much lately for me unfortunately, hav trouble experiencing joy these days. But this is supposed to be a gratitude thread so no more of that)! I am very grateful for her!

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I'm not too bad. @MDT .

I went for another swim today which I think was good for me

I've just had dinner and now checking my notifications.

How was your day?

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