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Gratitude

Gratitude

I have decided to start a gratitude 'journal' on here because I want to share the positives too not just when im at the bottom of the barrol and while im not out of that deep dark hole, I want others to share what they are gratiful of as well.

The first thing im grateful for is My work (my second job), after speaking to my boss about the chores that need to be done over next week/s, ive realised just how muhc trust she has in me. Something I never thought someone could be able to truly do when I hardly trust myself.

so a lot of you know who I am and that I have a second job. Some of you may know what a farmhand is while others go huh....

so in light of the people I trusted turning and saying that I need to get a job, I had some free time on my hands today and actually sat down and wrote out what it is that I do and the next time someone times me its not a job Ill be telling them where to shove it.

I dont need to write everything down but will dot point down the roles/responisibilities that I have being a farmhand- or second in charge.

  • There are 2 separate paddocks and they both require fencing checks, which involves on the good days (weather wise) or at least every second day a walk around the entire propert (both of them) checking for any fences that are broken or down and also checking the electric fencing units and noting which ones need batteries replaced. Every other day or on crappy rainy or extremly hot days its a drive anywhere the car is accessable to check the fencing and their units. Im not required to fix the fence unless something minor, as my bosses hubby does the fencing but thats on his days off his proper work/job
  • Check each horse on the property (around 120), not go and check specifically each horse unless noticing something wrong, so just noting them and doing a head count per paddock each paddock check
  • ive been entrusted 4 horses into my care which we call the holiday care as the owners are still required to check their horses at least once a week, with sometimes more during xmas and other special occasions and their associated holidays. Duties for this includes, scrubbing bathtubs (if requested and paid extra for) paddock cleaning (if requested and paid extra for, plus other clients on the properties) feeding and rugging with their general needs being met.
  • Talking to clients and as theirs 120 horses who knows who ill meet in the day however most still go to my boss for their problems.
  • Horse handling. If people require someone to hold their horses for vets, farriers, dentitsts or worming or other services im the first one thats given the chance to do this (extra $)
  • feed orders. Every few weeks I organise a feed truck so have to communicate and write down orders and take cash etc so organise the amounts of each feed for the feed business and let everyone know when the orders will be delivered.
  • When my boss goes away, im first in charge so the background stuff she does comes to me for the amount of time shes away.

So out of all that im very grateful she has put her trust in someone who is young (and who doesnt turst themselves) and has allowed me to grow and learn in this role.

Thank you to everyone who just read all that!!!

will try to get better pics when its not raining!

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Enjoy the rest @Shaz51 and I hope your ankle is soon on the mend.

I feel so much better when I pause and notice little things to be grateful - like you and your coffee

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Extra hour Certainly makes today easier ... for son to get across town ... and me to take a few easier breaths.

@frog

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@Appleblossom @outlander @Shaz51 @NatalieS How are you all

I did a gratitude meditation this morning and felt resentful and annoyed - not in a good head space

Still it's all practice
I genuinely am grateful for

  • meeting a friend today
  • mild weather
  • the long weekend coming up

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@frog I have felt like that a lot.

Gratitude is great when we feel it, but when it becomes a duty it becomes an extra and unecessary burden. Still trying to notice the positives is a better way to be. They have to be there tho, I have failed socially by being too grateful for too basic stuff, and others have been horrified ... ha ha ... sometimes it can be a no win situation.

Take Care @frog I love having you around.

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@Appleblossom @outlander @frog @Shaz51 Hello everyone.

I am grateful that my recent psychology session has worked. I am much more relaxed about my past traumas and have more energy on the present.

I am grateful I can walk with heels pain, now has arch support.

I am grateful I am not too affected by my mum with early dementia.

Thanks for care and support.

I am very grateful to have you all on the forum.

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thank you @Meowmy

there is always something to be grateful for even when there is soo much going on

Hello @outlander , @Appleblossom , @frog

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im really grateful to have the forums and my friends here. Its nice to have a soft place to land when i have no where else to go and its been a hard day

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@outlander @Shaz51 @Appleblossom @frog hello everyone

I am so grateful for the forum, the support and care to keep me from loneliness, to make me want to live.

I am grateful, I begin to feel a little happier.

I am grateful I did go for walks for two days.

I am grateful @Bunniekins keep me company in my walks.

I am grateful I am still able to deal with my dementia mum.

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@Meowmy I will be heading off for my walk with son2 and you will be in my thoughts as I head past the bay today with the different coloured shimmering lights on the water's edge. With the bird life (the ducks, plovers and seagulls) all enjoying the coming daylight . With the boaties all doing their blokey men's talk as they are all arriving to head off for a day on the sea.

Have a wonderful day Meowmy, you are a survivor Meowmy don't forget it. greenpea xxx

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@Bunniekins @outlander @Shaz51 @Appleblossom @frog I am grateful my feet pains are getting better. I am so grateful for the caring people on the forum helping me so much.

I am grateful I did go for a walk. I am grateful for the smiling friendly waiter at my coffee.

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