outlanderSenior Contributor
I dont know how much longer i can go on like this
I dont know how much longer i can keep going on like this anymore. I feel completely defeated right about now
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I dont know how much longer i can go on like this
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Unknown userMember
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All my life I feel like I have had to answer or seek approval from others. It originates from childhood obesity to me,where people thought you need to be told you are fat..I get stressed when I am made to feel Luke I have to explain myself to others.I dont.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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well thats a start @Faith-and-Hope i hope there keeps some improvment though even if its slow.
what are you doing to take care of yourself?
and oh no they wouldnt be in a river. if we go to certain areas and go right up on the cliffs we can sometimes see them passing through but thats in the ocean not a river.
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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You have mentioned that you live in a small, nosey, inconsiderate community @Former-Member ..... I
hope one day you can move from there.
@outlander
hope one day you can move from there.
@outlander
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Unknown userMember
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Yes but @outlander,I can't talk because I know they just want something to gossip about. I used to go for coffee with her,but I can no longer do that because I know I cannot trust them.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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of course you dont @Former-Member i can understand why it would upset you though
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Unknown userMember
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When I moved away @Faith-and -Hope,I wish I advertised for housecleaning as it was a city,no business here.I hope to leave one day,but going on carers,I feel my future is taken further away.I have to watch my mother as she is self centred and I'm worried she will see it as a right of way.
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Unknown userMember
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Thanks @outlander
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Will be back @Former-Member just doing something for pop
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Former-Memberyou said your worried now that your mother will take more advantage of you now that your going on the carers. might i remind you it also entitiles you to respite and things as well. so while yes your her primary carer, you can get help and your entitled to more help where either she stays at home and someone comes to your place or she goes to like a respite centre so you have the house to yourself
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Unknown userMember
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She can still drive around @outlander, I would rather leave it for someone who needs it more.She has been better since she's been on pain patches for her back, she's with my sister who moved back here til Thursday.I wish I could get a job tomorrow. I should've been on it April last year when I moved back here and she nearly died from gangrene gallstones.
Just @outlander as I said been times when she won't help herself.
Just @outlander as I said been times when she won't help herself.
