outlanderSenior Contributor
I dont know how much longer i can go on like this
I dont know how much longer i can keep going on like this anymore. I feel completely defeated right about now
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I dont know how much longer i can go on like this
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Oh i can see it now! @Former-Member yep thats it thats or spot! 💜
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Former-Member just moving our convo over to here.
I dont and cant sleep through the day and being a weekend and watching the kids ill be awake. Though ill be resting. That is a must.
I was in hospital in and out the last time we spoke. I was in there for 2 days after an attempt to end it all, then i was released but went back in from a severe panic attack but that was only a few hrs and now im back out now.
Just have a kidney infection currently which is stuffing me around alot.
How have you been? Im not sure if youve updated your thread currently.... and if you have im sorry ive missed it
I dont and cant sleep through the day and being a weekend and watching the kids ill be awake. Though ill be resting. That is a must.
I was in hospital in and out the last time we spoke. I was in there for 2 days after an attempt to end it all, then i was released but went back in from a severe panic attack but that was only a few hrs and now im back out now.
Just have a kidney infection currently which is stuffing me around alot.
How have you been? Im not sure if youve updated your thread currently.... and if you have im sorry ive missed it
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Thanks @outlander for bringing me up to date with where you're at. I get confused sometimes, everything seems to move so quickly and I just lose track of everyone. I guess it doesnt help that I only come on occasionally, so that makes it hard.
I have updated my ptsd thread a couple of days ago, but perhaps I didnt tag you on it? Sorry if thats the case. I will go tag you now if you'd like my latest situation. To put it mildly, I'm struggling big time. Everything is weighing on me very heavily right now. But I will get through, I have in the past and I will again. No choice really, as others need me right now.
Glad you are out of hospital anyway, which means you must be stable at least. Kidney infections can knock you around, so take things easy as much as possible. 
Have a good day.
Sherry 
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Thats ok @Former-Member 💜 i know you care. Please remember i care about you too 💜💜
Yes semi stable. More than before which is a start 💜
Will go check out your thread
Yes semi stable. More than before which is a start 💜
Will go check out your thread
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Yep there it goes
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Sans911 how the heck do u resist needing medications
I dont know if this situation now needs it nor do i no what to do now
My sister just rang straight into my bad kidney with her fking scooter
I dont know if this situation now needs it nor do i no what to do now
My sister just rang straight into my bad kidney with her fking scooter
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@outlander Firstly, put them out of your sight. It's easier said than done says me who jumped in the car last to get same after handing mine over last week for safety.
2nd. Try to think about how much worse things might get physically for you if you take extra. There is potential for immediate & lasting damage long after you have stopped taking them.
Just try to do as much as possible to manage your pain without risking your health further. I don't know what you are on, and you aren't allowed to tell my me, so I can't say it's safe to do this or that. I know that doesn't help you on this moment.
The only other thing I can suggest is to look up the 24hiur health line number. I'm quite sure it's Australia wide. You can ring a nurse and speak to them; they may be able to give you more guidance on how to manage pain levels.
Could you have a bath/shower at all? Or heat pack?
Not a pleasant situation you are in sweetie. Sorry I do more than offer comfort.
2nd. Try to think about how much worse things might get physically for you if you take extra. There is potential for immediate & lasting damage long after you have stopped taking them.
Just try to do as much as possible to manage your pain without risking your health further. I don't know what you are on, and you aren't allowed to tell my me, so I can't say it's safe to do this or that. I know that doesn't help you on this moment.
The only other thing I can suggest is to look up the 24hiur health line number. I'm quite sure it's Australia wide. You can ring a nurse and speak to them; they may be able to give you more guidance on how to manage pain levels.
Could you have a bath/shower at all? Or heat pack?
Not a pleasant situation you are in sweetie. Sorry I do more than offer comfort.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Ok they are out of sight but not out of mind. I might have to go out in the car @Sans911
Comfort is good sis -nearly used your line again-
Ill go for a showers and see if that helps
Comfort is good sis -nearly used your line again-
Ill go for a showers and see if that helps
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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had a cool shower which helped abit. just not going near the medicine cabinet. thankfully mum has taken the kids out and pops going out in a few minutes. not sure if thats going to work to my advantage or not yet but itll be peace for 10 minutes
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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ok so after last nights chat with @Zoe7 i contacted my second work. im not sure if it was a good idea or not and im not sure if this was a good bargain or not but anyway getting back to it.
i contacted her and i said im having alot of trouble with the increased workload (what was around 2 and abit hrs in the day is now taking up almost half the day) and that i think i need need to give up my role with her.
she said that she really doesnt want me to leave and has the offer on the table and to let her know tonight what i would like to do.
option 1- keep doing the same job with increased pay rates
option 2- she has said if i want to give it up then thats my decision
or
option 3 which is what im leaning towards..
and thats keep the same pay rate but only do it for 4 days a week instead of 7 and she will take on one of the bigger days so i have two big days and 2 smaller workload days
what do you guys think? i havent full decided yet but i also know that i cant keep up with the workload i have
@Sans911@Former-Member@Zoe7@Owlunar@Queenie@Faith-and-Hope
