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Night Shift

Night Shift

Since I am awake at 4am I thought I'd start this thread for those of us who have trouble sleeping and might find it helpful to have a place to go to chat. Whatever gets you through the night is alright.

To get the ball rolling, I'll just say that I enjoyed being part of the Topic Tuesday discussion tonight. I wish it was possible for these events to be weekly rather than monthly. Either way, thanks SANE and all the people I've met on here over recent months.

Edited June 2016 and February 2017: Night Shift is now open 24 hours a day. To join in, just click through to the last page of the thread at the top right of this post to get to the latest message.

Edited April 2017 and June 2017: For the sake of better communications between members here, I am adding that this thread is meant to be a caring, kind and gentle place of sharing. Humour is welcome, as long as its not unkindly directed towards other members. Hope your time in this chat thread is rewarding.

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kids are at their dads still @eth i hate when they are gone. its hard

lj

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I'm hearing you @Former-Member. I could have written that second paragraph myself. Really hoping things pick up this week for you💜😊

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Hello @Former-Member

sending you lots of hugs xx

I think i will be in bed early tonight , had a very restless night sleep last night , i should of got up and talk to my friends here

going to watch grand design new zealand tonight

take care my friend xx

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When do they get back @Former-Member?

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thanks @Former-Member

sorry for the monopolising outburst, how is evryone else?

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@Former-Member I'm really glad you were able to talk to your therapist about everything that was happening over the last week. I'm not good with change either, not at all. I avoid it whenever I can. I don't think you're whinging - we are here to share with each other after all, and to support each other. You seem to be in a bit of a better place today which is nice to see.

About the festival - it goes for nearly 3 weeks every year and is huge - venues all over town with music, theatre, art, food, cabaret, family events, stories and ideas events, comedy and more - some Australian and some from overseas. Too much to afford on my limited budget but I try to go to a few of the cheaper things each year. I'm particularly looking forward to the National Indigenous Music Awards concert.

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kids not back till tomorrow night, im not sure if i can make it through, when theyre here i can get through becaus its busy and im on autopilot but without them my head goes into overdrive of why im just not really needed

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Gentle hugs @Former-Member, you are needed, you are the kids mum, they will always need you, you have so many friends here who care about you and worry about your well being, please be gentle with yourself,, take some time to just sit and relax, take a deep breath, whatever needs to be done can wait.

you can make it, you always have, you are a survivor, you manage to get through all lifes struggles. you may not be strong but you are coragous.

gentle hugs again, you are in my thoughts

Jacques

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I remember feeling just like that when my child was with their father @Former-Member. I suggest getting out of the house for a while - take yourself out for brunch or something, or getting into a project like making a cubby for them out of big boxes or even baking yummy treats for them to come home to. I think you're still on holidays are you?

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Thanks @eth. It's so frustrating when we can't afford to do some of those cultural things. It sounds fabulous though. I'd love to go one day. It's lovely to have something to look forward to. Wishing you the best for the week ahead. My son has just arrived so I'm taking off for a bit. 💜😊

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