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I get it @Shaz51

Yes - it's all about him - so frustrating - my ex was morose and sullen and no fun at all - and I understand now - he was not coping with the situation and so he didn't - he'd eat his meals as if they were poison - was often late for work because he didn't get up in time, slept like the dead - really noisy

And I became a HW - horrible wife - I was so angry -

And living alone with my cat - I never get that angry - I don't have to

I so understand - I had a boyfriend I never lived with for years - and years ago - and life was all about him too

Both of these men had the same name and were mothers' boys - is yours a mothers' boy?

Decadian

I wouldn`t call him a mother`s boy , but spoilt , the youngest and the only boy in the family

He has three older sisters , Depression and anxiety runs through the family his grandparents, his mother and sisters

I am his second wife

The doctors don`t know totally what my hubby has, been through so many tests

my hubby can remember things way back when he was tiny @Decadian

Actually - I have a near photographic memory too @Shaz51

One thing that might help or cause a person to develop such a tendency could be a number of things - I have often attributed it to having a sibling a year younger than myself - and I can remember conversations from and early age - and I was often put in charge of that one - and the much younger one

There is a photo of me when I was about 3 I think - with my sibling - and I remember this photo being taken - and aware that our mother was cruel - I also remember thinking that the camera somehow remembered things and I thought I would - must - remember

So I could ask - does your husband have a sibling close to him in age - probably younger - and was he abused as a child - something causes early memories to be incredibly clear - what happens is how a person deals with such memories

But it must be so frustrating not to know what the problem is - oh boy

Decadian

Hi everyone. I haven't been around much lately as I've been off-line most of the time. Hope everyone is having an ok day.

Hi to @Former-Member - hope whatever it is today works out ok for you.

Hi @Mazarita I miss our chats in the wee hours. Hope you are travelling well.

Hello @eth, @Former-Member

Hi @Decadian, they had four children in five years

My hubby sister is one year older and has always given him a hard time ever since he was little and then he was bullied at school and at home

so he is diagnosed with three things and has meds for something else

sending you hugs

Hi @eth

I miss our chats. Hope you are doing okay xxxooo