Night Shift

Hi @BlueBay

Having been a moderator in a website in the States I can say that I was on for a good part of most days - sometimes it was busy -

I guess being on this side of the planet I was on duty when most people where asleep - but being on duty during our daytime - it was important

However - I could not be on all day every day -

But it is a good idea to know if there is a moderator on duty - I am still learning about this site

Decadian

Hi @Angels333

Yes - it does sound as if Tuesday are busy and question if you are spreading yourself too thin I think

I hope that pain in your tummy is something that you did in your yoga class rather than a bug or bad food

Sleep well if possible - and I hope Wednesday is easier

Decadian

Hi @Decadian

How are you going tonight? i'm trying distract myself until im tired enough to try and sleep.

lj

Hello there, im Baboo- a part time Moderator here on the forum.

What sort of things do you need to know? 🙂 Im not here as often as the others but if i cant answer something ill make sure ill find out for you off the main moderators 🙂

Hello there,

Im Baboo , one of the moderators here on the sight.

Im not sure if all mods are on particular days or not. it is a good question to ask- ill mention it when im leaving to make sure we get an answer.

Hi @Angels333

That work we do with our councellor is that hardest work we do - we have to get a big psychic pick and shovel and clear all the irrelevant stuff out of the way - and go through what's left with a tooth brush and find the tiny gems that are going to help

I get exhausted when I see my psychotherapist - but I am finding those tiny little bits buried down there under all the events of my life to nearly 70 years ago when I turned on my mother - decided I would not tell her anything about my inner life - and I was so young when I did this I often wonder how I did it -

So - you can go and work a split shift - which is tiring work on it's own - the rat race - ah - I saw a rat race once - it's a thing people do it rats to find out why humans behave as they do

Have I answered why you turn whacko when you see your psychiatrist? All the filtering the past - where it all began -

However - I am sure the psychiatrist has seen it all - I am sure they do not spend every spare moment thinking about what you said when you were there - it's what you think about what your said - and you are free to say whatever in therapy - appropriately - safe - been there

How much have I wasted my time worrying what other people thought of me - I am sure they have forgotten. People are so caught up in their own stuff - your doctor will be thinking when you are there in the office being wacko - which is a perfectly natural state of mind in these circumstances - but exhausting

I was a telephone councellor for about 2 years - less than that I think - and I can tell you that I have forgotten all but a couple of conversations - we are not made to remember everything - we need a forgettory

You are fine @Angels333 - just exhausted - certainly not wacko - how's the tummy ache

Lots of virtual hugs

Dr Decadian