Night Shift

Hi @Angels333,

Yes i feel less lonely when i am here with friends 🙂 i try to be as honest as possible to everyone, it helps save any mis communication and confusion.

I am so glad you are out of hospital and feeling better, i hope your health continues to improve.

I am so glad you have stopped SH, i struggle with it every day, it is not good for anyone to be harming themselves, i am so glad you have found a way to stop.

take care

Jacques

Well it's 2.30am and everyone here is having a lousy night. My visitors are used to Canberra temperatures and Darwin has turned the heat up. I don't use air con here as I can't afford it. It's probably 28deg or so in the bedrooms. They are no longer used to sleeping with ceiling fans on and bub has fussed a lot and fallen out of bed twice. Oh dear. And I'm not used to so much activity here at night so have only managed 2 short naps myself. Anybody out there?

Oh darn @eth Toddlers can be hard enough to settle.

I am hard to settle too. Not sure if I have missed you. I have a house guest too, I felt maternal about her 2 years ago, but now I feel distinctly uncomfortable when she visits. Thems the breaks I guess.

Hi @eth

It sounds as if you and everyone else had a horrible night -

I know A/C costs a bundle - but it seems everyone around here has it - I do - Melbourne can have very hot weather and nights k=like the one you just had

But there's the thing - even with the A/C on hot nights when the termperature is the same outside as it is inside - the the A/C unit seems to make the air worse

Back you you and your house-full - I guess Canberra as a different climate besides Darwin - and these opressive nights might continue - how long are your guests staying -

Let's hope tonight is easier

Decadian

@eth and @Appleblossom

I have lived alone since 1989 - I am set in my ways

There's an upside and a downside to having house guests - esp with a toddler in the mix

And then bad weather - whatever the weather was -hot and humid I guess - oh dear

We don't have to like it - we don't have to feel guilty about not liking it - we just put on a happy face I reckon and vent to our mates in a safe place - like here - where people understand how we feel

Decadian

Hi @Angels333

Ive been asking about you, it's good to see you.......

@eth.......is there any time for you to spend by yourself? Can you go to the libary or anywhere for a cuppa tea? This is a huge issue for me as well.

@Decadian

Of course.....@Appleblossom......Arlo sends his love.

Yes, @Appleblossom.......you have been through enough. I've been thinking about how you can live well.....