Night Shift

It's all good @TAB. I was in have a chat mode too. But tired now and need to crash. Not sure if I'll be around much tomorrow as I have a huge day. Catch ya later 💜😊

Sleep well @Former-Member

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Hi @Former-Member

You are right about birth order - it can be the luck of the draw -

I have a self-worked idea I call "The Chalk and Cheese Result" - the second child is often the opposite of the first - and this happened in my family of origin and my own kids - I think the second child can be challenged by what the first child is obtaining through taking up all the good roles - or makes sure they avoid the pitfalls of the first - - and also

If there is a gap of years between the older children and the last child there is sometimes favouritism toward the family "baby" and place I am glad I was never in - but that's one of the roundabout and swings thing

I shall have to have another look at birth order again

My mother - I had a long cry on Life Line tonight - I know I will never get over it - actually it's more about my toxic sister and how I believe she failed in her duty of care toward our mother - my mother's suffering causes me more pain than my own - I can take on my own scars - somehow I have to allow others to take the consequences of favouritism - and that's my task atm - I am tired of other people's burdens

And I seem to be talking around the edges - maybe I will sort it out better in time -

You are sounding great atm - that is a good thing

Decadian

ok nite @Former-Member

Me too @TAB ... dozing off at the mo.

G'night 💤

can't see that coffee yet haha lol just eating chips here lol

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@TAB

I love that drawing @Faith-and-Hope

It seems to have my whole friendly family in it - let's see

I was born under the moon

I have a cat who thinks she's human and is a choc tortie but has two ginger stripes at the end of her tail

My dd had a pair of striped socks like that - although they were three different shades of blue and white she called them her tiger socks - she was three of four at the time

And the sureal cubism of odd things that seem to be together really works for me - ah - that is my mind - so many things happening at once that might seem unrelated but definitely make up a whole

I love it - thanks for posting that

Decadian

G'night @Decadian

Wishing you sweet dreams of marvellous cats ... 😊

Thanks @Faith-and-Hope

I am off too - before I leave let's see if I can post up something cute

Ah yes - you can see the two stripes at the end of her tail - there is definitely a copyright on her tail

And she has a tat too - in her ear - tells everyone she's a nice kitty who keeps to herself and there are no kittens likely to happen

Decadian

[night all]