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Trouble !

Trouble !

I'm in big do do and thinking stupid exit plans. No worries. These are thoughts only. I'm not planning any action on these thoughts. I'm terrified that I'm going to end up homeless again. Any support would be very welcime @Faith-and-Hope @Teej @Appleblossom @Shaz51 @Mazarita @Former-Member @Former-Member and anyone else who cares about me.

I'm si afraid....... Luv n Hugzzz to all 💕

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Happy Christmas @Appleblossom @Mazarita @Faith-and-Hope @Former-Member @utopia @Teej @Former-Member and all.

It's been a difficult day on the verge if tears alk day. I miss my DB so much. All in all I guess it's been a good day but very hard. I'm finally home in my bed and now I'm going to curl up in a fietal ball and cry.
Catch up tomorrow. Lots of love 💕

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Merry Christmas @Kurra @Teej
I'm sirry it's been such a tough day for you kurra. Hopefully a goos cry and a good aleep and tomorrow will look better.

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Hugs n hugs @Kurra .....

Feeling for you ..... 💜

And missing you @Teej. I hope you have had a good day ..... 💐💕

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Hiya all,

im sending you a belated merry Christmas. I wanted to come on yesterday but it was flat out and then I crashed in an exhausted heap.

I hope you had moments of peace and a few smiles. I finally made it through Christmas (without ending up in hospital.... phew) and did the best I could.....there were many moments of me being a headless chook running everywhere with no clue what I was doing and I got distracted heaps but we all got it together.

@Appleblossom I thought of you yesterday. I hope Christmas 2018 is better for you. I’m not sure when you are reunited but I hope it’s soon.

@Kurra I’m so sorry that Christmas was so hard. My heart did a big flip when I read your post. I hope you slept well.

@Former-Member I haven’t read beyond this thread in the last two days but I hope you had a lovely day. Did you see your son?

@Mazarita hoping you had a lovely day there too although I read you had a few storms up your way. I hope you found some joy.

@utopia thinking of you too. Hoping you had some lovely moments with your son and family. I know things are really hard again for you.

@Faith-and-Hope Here’s hoping your day was good with a slightly smaller clan for Christmas. I hope the day went well and no dramas.....I channeled you in a few rough moments yesterday 😜

@Former-Member hoping you had lots of smiles yesterday and excitement. Crossing fingets you have some chilled kids there today.

@Bunniekins I saw you pop in here too. Hoping you had a lovely day.

i still have cleaning up to do 😏 but will get there.

I went looking for a group hug for us and found this. It’s what I’d picture us to be a bit like if we had all met up yesterday....with all of us together 💜🤗

......well if we lived in a cold climate for Christmas anyway 😜

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@Teej. Not sure what you'd be wearing, but I'd be in a singlet. Too hot for much else.
A group hug would be good though.
Glad you got through the day. Your first in a while. Well done.
Yes cleaning up can always wait.

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Hiya .... was enjoying a leisurely coffee by the river when mr. f&h called to say BIL had turned up and was sitting in our garage at home ...... Mr. f&h was out at the shops ...... the house looked like the aftermath of a tsunami ..... 🎶 Happy Boxing Day to Me 🎶 ......

Took a leisurely walk home. BIL was on his phone when I arrived, and stayed in his phone till Mr. f&h got home ....,, thereby relieving me of any response sublimity for company or conversation ...... so I served him a glass of water and began in the tsunami wreckage.

I leave my table permanently set between Dec 1 and Jan 7 ....,, it’s cheerful and I need that ...... so as I washed up and re-set the table at my leisure, my home started to emerge in at least this corner of it ...... ✔️

🎶 Happy Boxing Day to Me 🎶

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Happy Boxing Day

to You @Faith-and-Hope What a great way to keep the festive table atmosphere in the house. The twelve days of christmas end around the 7th thereabout ... for the epiphany

and you @Kurra

and you @Teej

and you @utopia

and you @Former-Member

and all others reading

I finished the day with an invite to watch "Collateral Beauty" a suitable chicflick for 4 old ladies.

I survived and am having a "looking forward" orientation more these days. Not overly optimistic but steadily facing the new day, week and year. Going with less naivety probably will mean less bruised heart. For a very long time I did not make plans so I think it is a good sign.

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Thanks @Appleblossom. I'm hiding away in my cave. Wish I could contribute more but I just go very quiet when all is not so good.
Luv n Hugzzz to all. You're all very much in my mind evrry day.

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We do care @Kurra

You have made a difference here.

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@Appleblossom. Sounds like a lovely surprise -invite to watch the movie.
It's good to focus on those feelings when good surprises happen. We are so used to focusing on the negatives for hours or days. We need to learn to focus on those good moments more.
Might be a good plan for me for 2018. Maybe you would like to join me.
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