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I'm in big do do and thinking stupid exit plans. No worries. These are thoughts only. I'm not planning any action on these thoughts. I'm terrified that I'm going to end up homeless again. Any support would be very welcime @Faith-and-Hope@Teej@Appleblossom@Shaz51@Mazarita@Former-Member@Former-Member and anyone else who cares about me.
I'll say you're tough @Kurry, you inspire me so much. I've overdone it today and getting up - omg I can hardly walk. But you, it helps to know were not alone and people survive even greater suffering. Hang in there Kurra ❤❤❤
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don't know what i need, cant ask for help in ways that are helfpul, dont know how to 'be'.im tired and feel like i cant keep up with so mch in my life that is so hard. the demands are so high and then nothing and the empty space is suffocating. im so tired.
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💜💜💜@Former-Member .....
Sending you hugs Hon ..... the school year is almost finished .....
Can you set mini-goals ?
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@Former-Member ..... 💙💕
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Thank you @Faith-and-Hope school hols have started now. I’m so tired it’s just as well I think. Mini goals are a good idea. Need to get myself moving somehow. Just so flat and low
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I know what that feels like @Former-Member ....
Having to set a walking target today to get moving. Got half way there and realised I had left my purse at home .....
No purse, no coffee .... right ?
Had to double back and very tempted to ✔️ that as my walk. Instead I am setting off again, but will cheat a bit and tram part of the way ...... so have to at least walk to the tram ..... then from the tram to the coffee shop that was my target ..... than reverse it afterwards. Together with the false start, that will make my distance well enough .....
We are headed for a scorcher here today. It's still fairly cool at th moment, but I have no energy already ......
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Well done on problem solving through that and prioritising that your goal is met. Proud of you as always. I still don't have a washing machine so I really need to go to the laundromat. Weather is Hot here today to. Dog might not get a walk unless I go late tonight.
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Thanks @Former-Member😏
Sounds like the laundromat is the goal of the day there ..... it's a good one.
I have left the washing machine going ✔️ and have made the bed ✔️
That might be it for me, around the baby dragon's needs and working on my jigsaw puzzle. The puzzle becomes my most major emotional distraction aside from the forums.
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thats good re washing machine and bed made too @Faith-and-Hope Glad that you have those distractions too... though wish there was no need for distraction for you either. I hope the coffee is nice.
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Hi @lisajane and @Faith-and-Hope, just wanted to say hi and wish you both well with your mini-goals today. It's been a while @lisajane, nice to "see" you again!
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