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Can you tell us about your "Name" here

Can you tell us about your "Name" here

Seeing as we have been sharing @soul's idea about our Avatar Picture - why not share about our Avatar Name as well?

I started here as Decadian and actually - that name still appears - and why did I start with that name?

It was nearly the 30th anniversary of my son's death - 3 decades - such a long time - so it's over 31 years but yes - I choose Decadian because of all my decades - more than I want to mention actually

I started signing off with Dec - then I had one of those days when my computer needed picking at - ah what - I spent the whole day trying to get back here and I had to start again with a new name because Decadian was already being used and so I started to use Dec - which is so easy to type

But the Decadian is the real name and the real person I gues - older than most of you but I feel perfectly okay about that

So I can hear my assisted shopping lady is turning up - I think anyway - it's time to go shopping -

So everyone - have the best day possible

Dec

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@Owlunar @Shaz51 @TAB @Former-Member @Bunniekins @outlander @Ant7 @CheerBear @Bat_Girl @Former-Member @Nell23 @Sans911

I chose my Nic name Bella not because I think I'm beautiful. I chose it because my rescent boyfriend is a singer/songwritter he calls me Bella, he even wrote me a song. "My Aussie Bella", it is such an honour & I'm very flattered that he did that for me. He lives in Florida USA & I have never met him in person. We talk via phone on a regular basis,or via Internet, & he is very complex. He has a Mental Illness & he doesnt believe he does? I try to be supportive & caring towards him, as his family treat him like a freak.

We have been friends for 4 years, he is very talented & I love to listen to him singing, & playing his guitar. He can play many different musical instruments, & he is very intelligent & writes so many wonderful songs. He & I have at times a very unique friendship, even tho we may never met in person?

What ever will be, will be!

Casera sera 🙂

LUV

Bella xo 🙂

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i picked my avatar name for 2 reasons. One was because of the tv and book series but also because at the time i felt like a complete outsider. Someone who is completely out of sorts here. Someone who didnt fit in. But i like the tv series outlander and since having this name others have adopted the name claire for me. @Former-Member started that though so the credit goes to her for calling me Claire

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Claire 🙂

Certainly the name @outlander says a lot about your place in life atm - and it fits I guess - I have seen you as an outsider in your real world but here - I think the name Claire fits your persona here - so yes - I just might start calling you Claire as well

The name "Claire" means bright, shining, clear and comes from Latin and Greek - and I have always liked that name

I have not watched Outlander on TV and watching the DVDs where I shop to starting to watch it from the beginning - but realy - both names suit you right now - I like the idea of seeing you move more into "Claire" as time passes

It seems our avatar names do same something about us

Dec

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what about Shaz @Owlunar

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Hi @Former-Member

It's wonderful to have a unique relationship as you do with the name who gave you the nic name Bella - and your pic is really beautiful with the fairy-dust

Thanks for sharing and yes - your nic name does mean beautiful - I like it

Dec

I really love that pic too - I love cats and therefore kittens so much - two kittens being friendly - so love that

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It's a lovely name @Former-Member - and it does mean beautiful

And it's just now I realised there are two Bellas - I have been a little confused at times

Dec

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@Bunniekins wrote:

@Owlunar You have to know the bad to appreciate the good don't you? I know I used to take good things for granted but not anymore. Every bit of sunshine that comes my way makes me feel warm inside. Like today a man tipped his hat at me ... it was so nice. Made me feel like a lady. A bit of kindness shared is a good thing for everyone because I can now pass it onto you and hopefully make you feel good about the story of the man tipping his hat at me.

* * * *

You are right @Bunniekins - we do need to see the bad before we can appreciate the good - and both have a wide variations of being in our lives

I like telling about Random Moments of Human Kindness as you experienced when a man tipped his hat to you - small thing but it made you feel like a lady

Today I was crossing a busy street on my crutches - still having to work hard with them - and I was on an island in the middle and a man in a van of some kind stopped for me to cross the rest of the road - holding up a few other cars

I really appreciated that

We could have a thread to mention those moments also - that's a good idea

Dec


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@Owlunar Dec that is a great idea!!

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@Shaz51 wrote:

what about Shaz @Owlunar


Hi @Shaz51

You are still so young - ye-ess!!

Shaz seems to be one of a variety of names originating from Sharon which was an extremely popular name for girls at the end of the C19th - and means "A Fertile Plain"

It appears in the Bible as "Flower of Sharon" - and in John Steinbeck's novel The Grapes of Wrath as Rose of Sharon - and to me that is a beautiful name

I hope this helps - there is nothing for Shaz but I think I have known several girls or women whose name was Sharon called Shaz

Dec

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Hi Niqua

I have looked and can't tell you much about your name - but Niqua or Niquette can be a boy or girls name in some parts of the world - don't feel bad about that - my real name can be either too - something I really like actually

From my own knowledge of names though I think Niqua could be linked to Nicholas which means Victory to the People - pretty powerful name truly

Dec

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