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outlanderSenior Contributor
i just completly balled my eyes out in the shower. i feel like a total looser. a waste of space. a waste of air. a nothing
im nearly 21 and literally have nothing to show for it and its really dawned on me.
i have no idea how to change, i so despartley want to change but i have no idea how to
oh god im going again 😞 😞 😞 😞
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My beautiful cyber grandgirl Claire 
@outlander
Perhaps for now the best thing to do, is nothing - rest. Try not to worry abot the weight gain, I think many medications make you retain fluids {parhaps that's why the mouth gets so dry}. Your Mother may not be arriving until late tonight, but she is coming . . . . there is a light at the end of that tunnel Though I imagine that light cause anxiety, I think it might be ever so slightly better than the dark hole.
A very wise young woman once told me, we can't always be happy, that's impossible 😉 Despite my hissy fits and frustration I know I alwasy 'come out' of the darkness - you and my frinds make it so much easier these days to do that. So I guess I'm saying, I here that your unhappy, I feel your unhappiness, and that's ok 🙂
Love you Claire
Niqua
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