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outlanderSenior Contributor
i just completly balled my eyes out in the shower. i feel like a total looser. a waste of space. a waste of air. a nothing
im nearly 21 and literally have nothing to show for it and its really dawned on me.
i have no idea how to change, i so despartley want to change but i have no idea how to
oh god im going again 😞 😞 😞 😞
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QueenieSenior Contributor
@outlander I'm sorry you feel this way my friend.
When I see your posts, I see a bright, intelligent, articulate young woman writing about things which are clearly not her fault and who desperately needs to give herself a break.
You've accomplished many things even since I knew you here! Take your studies for example, you're one smart cookie and you're motivated too.
For the record, when I was young, I had no idea where I was going and what I was doing myself. I eventually went with something I thought was the right fit. You'll find your fit in this haphazard world eventually, that I am totally sure of!
Hugz 
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