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Taking the plunge
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
Re: Taking the plunge
Grey and black, I thought maybe it would be something like that for you @Maggie. Long night here too (not coffee at 2ish for me though). Very ugh feeling 🙁
There's so much about it (the 25th) that isn't helpful and it's very confusing and mashy to see everyone so 'happy' but to be feeling anything but. I big time feel for everyone who feels the way you do about it. It would be so hard.
I'll make you one. Heading to the kettle now.
There's so much about it (the 25th) that isn't helpful and it's very confusing and mashy to see everyone so 'happy' but to be feeling anything but. I big time feel for everyone who feels the way you do about it. It would be so hard.
I'll make you one. Heading to the kettle now.
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MaggieSenior Contributor
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Thankyou @CheerBear always tastes better when someone makes one for you. Perfect. ☕️☕️☕️
Do do you have plans today?
I see my counsellor at 10. Do you see your psych today? Then heading to Bunnings to buy some grass. 😁😁😁😁 I’m making a small area for fur baby. Only 1 mt square. It’s all weeds and dry atm, so I’m making a little patch she might enjoy.
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MaggieSenior Contributor
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I just looked up some Jack Skellington wreaths @CheerBear . Very cool. 👍👍👍
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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I had plans today, something I was looking forward to, but I know I can't do it today so it's off @Maggie. I feel sad and disappointed and am trying not to think that canceling this is the start of a very slippery path. No psych for me today but wishing it was as I think I could his thinking brain.
Bunnings and grass for furbaby made me smile a lot. Is kind of friend taking you?
The wreath is fun. A bit odd which I'm good with 🙂
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MaggieSenior Contributor
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Does the plan have to be cancelled today @CheerBear . But saying you know you can’t do it means you’ve thought it through, big thoughts, big feels. 💙💙
A slippery path. 💜💜 Things are sounding really tough today.
Yes, kind of friend will be taking me. She’s having a tough time with her friend. Big things happening, and out of control stuff. Others making big decisions. Really hard.
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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I think the plan does need to be cancelled @Maggie, or it really feels like it does. I sat on the phone at silly o'clock with half of me desperately wanting someone to take me away so I could time out for a bit. I can't be that and then be OK today I think. Messy 🙁 I'm just tired I think but tired is hard to manage at times. I know it gets better and I know I can come out of this but it feels bad.
That sounds very tough with kind of friend. Tough for you i imagine, riding that out alongside her. She's lucky to have you.
That sounds very tough with kind of friend. Tough for you i imagine, riding that out alongside her. She's lucky to have you.
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ethSenior Contributor
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Following along and thinking of you all this morning @CheerBear @Maggie @Shaz51 @Former-Member Sending you all warm wishes and the hope that things improve over the day.
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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Thanks @eth. Hoping today goes well for you.
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MaggieSenior Contributor
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I’m not sure there is such a thing as ‘ just tired’ @CheerBear Getting to that place has been a struggle all the way. Tired is a ‘huge’ real. Specially when there’s no time out available.
Can you just feel the tired, without needing to know you’ll come out of it? That might be a bit silly, if it is, it’s ok. I just find ‘ feeling’ a very big one. Mainly feels are relatively new to me, so labelling and acknowledging is important. Makes them real and important. I’m incredibly simple in some areas, could take a bit of getting used to. Sorry in advance.
Kind of friend likes drama, that’s ok. I just need to be careful and discerning, and understanding. Tricky.
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ethSenior Contributor
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@CheerBear I'm around for a while if you want to talk about what's going on for you re needing to cancel today's planned activity. Sending love xx I think I just saw it's your birthday elsewhere - hope it has some real joy in it and that the year to come is peaceful and progressive for you xx
