MaggieSenior Contributor
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Taking the plunge
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Unknown userMember
Re: Taking the plunge
No fun going when exhausted though.
I used to try and be there for everyone, until I had a breakdown.
Now I'm alone, apart from daughter, that's all I can cope with. Her father is around too, but that's really hard. 😮😨
I'm used to it now, but live in hope that things will change
Yes, still amazed at last weeks events. Will take a while to recover .
Are you doing anything nice for yourself today? 💜
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MaggieSenior Contributor
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For @Former-Member@Former-Member@Former-Member and me!!!!
I'm caught inside a torrent
Of water crashing through
So often feel I'm drowning
And don't know what to do
Can't swim against the currents
Pounding waters push me on
I have no strength to battle
The fight is hard and long
I notice as I'm tossed
Beneath the waters vast and wide
A human chain is forming
Standing side by side
They catch me as I plunge the water
Its something they do well
Each one has been caught in this fight
Their stories they do tell
Once my fall is softened
I look back to where they are
The human chain has formed again
Someone else is falling through
Now I recognise those smiles
Theyre our mates who know what we're going through.
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Unknown userMember
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Fantastic @Maggie - loved it. We are the human chain to catch each other when we fall and bounce each other back up again
xxxxx
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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Hi @Maggie..... someone special posted this for me a couple of weeks ago .... I figure she won’t mind me sharing the love around a bit where it’s needed most ...... 💗
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Unknown userMember
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Thank you @Former-Member
Healing from a breakdown takes time. Not to mention the shock of the last week for you.
For me there has been vast improvement, but I still have mental scars that can slow me down. I understand where you are coming from. Its good to be there for others, but we also need our private space to chill and recoup. Thats why i love peace and quiet so much.
I have been doing just that today lol. Taking it a bit easier as it will be a full on weekend with my daughter, but I have to be there for her or she is likely to go backwards. I wouldnt forgive myself. So the pressures on a bit. One day at a time...holding onto hope we move forward at our pace. Have a relaxing evening xxx ![]()
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Unknown userMember
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@Maggie
beautiful concept....
love the fact that you said "and me!!!!"
all of us trying to be here for each other when we can..
today I am going to be gentle with myself and allow no self-criticism....
what will you all do for yourselves today?
@Former-Member @Maggie @Former-Member @Former-Member
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MaggieSenior Contributor
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oh @Faith-and-Hope thankyou.
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MaggieSenior Contributor
Re: Taking the plunge
@Former-Member No self criticism is a really good one. I'm going easy because no choice atm, world spins if I don't. @Former-Member How's the hair????? @Former-Member Try to get some rest. @Faith-and-Hope Hope you are going ok.🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃
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Unknown userMember
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@Maggie
easy sounds like a very good plan to me...
being self aware helps so much.....
how is your garden growing? part of a nursery rhyme...
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Unknown userMember
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💗💟💜💕
Whether we feel good or bad, have something to say or not.
I haven't been home long and am still feeling really stressed and uptight.
Seem to be taking long to get over the stress re my daughter.
I'm not sure about my hair yet Maggie. I get really anxious having it done and I often feel anxious for a while after. I think it's supposed to be a pamper having hair done. I find it the opposite. 😮
Usually I'm ok the next day.
I asked her to cut it the same as last time, it's not quite the same, so I'm disappointed, but hopefully I'll be ok with it tomorrow.
Life was hard today. 😣😨
Will check in later.
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