MaggieSenior Contributor
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Taking the plunge
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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I so hear you @Maggie We are the ones that suffer and seem locked away in our own misery and they get to lead their own lives - not fair does not even come close 
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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Hearing you @Maggie ..... and it really sucks, but I’m not so sure they get off scot-free ....... I believe you can’t carry out abuse without it marring you on the inside.
I reckon it comes back around in and to the abusers in other ways, and they end up struggling with mi issues too ....... not always perhaps, but I reckon it would be a majority of them. There has to be something really wrong with them to hurt other people so badly.
So many hugs for both of you ❣️
I reckon it comes back around in and to the abusers in other ways, and they end up struggling with mi issues too ....... not always perhaps, but I reckon it would be a majority of them. There has to be something really wrong with them to hurt other people so badly.
So many hugs for both of you ❣️
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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Knowing where mine are and what they are doing now I have to disagree with most of that @Faith-and-Hope. I am definitely the one that has suffered for most of my life whereas they have families, friends and a 'life'. It may be that some also suffer in other ways but mine certainly do not have seemed to!
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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😔💚💚💚 @Zoe7 ......
It’s wrong at the heart of it .....
It’s wrong at the heart of it .....
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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Yes it is @Faith-and-Hope
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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@Maggie @Zoe7 ❤️❤️
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MaggieSenior Contributor
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@Zoe7 I'm having a few network problems, slow and messages not coming through. My abusers are walking guilt free also. That beings home the worthless message loud and clear. Thankyou @Zoe7@Faith-and-Hope for listening with your heart and eyes. Love the pic @Faith-and-Hope
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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I am feeling quite worthless myself tonight @Maggie - sometimes it is the smallest things that can be the most triggering
Knowing they have a life, families, friends, etc. and seem to have no concept of what they have done is tearing me apart tonight - not at all coping with what is going on in my head. I don't want to sleep tonight but that is all I want to do also - so hard!
I definitely hear you @Maggie 
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MaggieSenior Contributor
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@Zoe7 I so wish I could sleep. It's like I'm afraid to, I have to be on guard all the time. I'm in a different State, but not in my head. My thoughts are everywhere yet nowhere. I'm hearing you also. Fragile doesn't come close does it. I'm lost for words for my own life experiences, beyond anger even. Just lost.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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That was nearly exactly what I was chatting to someone about tonight @Maggie - I don't want to sleep yet that is all I want to do - I don't feel safe either way - My head is all over the place and I can't think but my thoughts are magnified - I feel like I don't matter and nothing is likely to change that right now. I am not angry - I am just lost in a world that I did not make, did not ask for and do not deserve - and I hate my life right now. Neither of us are in a good place it seems tonight
