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Taking the plunge
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Unknown userMember
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Oh @TAB!😍😘😍😘😍😘😍😘😍😘
Poor @Sans911 and @outlander will be sick!lol😘😍😘😍😘😍😘😍😘😍😘😍
Poor @Sans911 and @outlander will be sick!lol😘😍😘😍😘😍😘😍😘😍😘😍
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TABSenior Contributor
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Ok mixed metaphors @Former-Member plus spent most adult life alone and or depressed well despite occasional outings when got trade, uni degree etc
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Unknown userMember
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I have spent most of my adult life alone @TAB,and it's not going to improve,worse now because I'm so down and out and feel inadequate and a failure and I try to avoid people to keep myself "safe"from potential threat or harm .
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TABSenior Contributor
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Hi @utopia haven't talked in forever .. guess you aren't doing back veranda stuff so much these days? Well feeding mozzies mabes. Sounds good re son. Nepal/North India was on a list for me once upon a time 😀 who knows
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TABSenior Contributor
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Sorry @Former-Member well at least you played resilly stuff I got dragged into ..ok there was an edge to it from other side maybe.
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Unknown userMember
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That's very exciting for your son @utopia 👍🌷🌼🌺
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Unknown userMember
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Its a bit of respite from spilling your guts @TAB,once I sit with my thoughts I may as well walk into a minefield most times.
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TABSenior Contributor
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..I got left behind in 20s re friends/marriages/kids ..all from un resolved teen/child hood stuff. I never wanted to grow up. And in a way I didn't. I spent decades indoors sucking on thumb ok not literally with the odd why aren't you married yet from rels thrown in.. while I set myself up for ok .. for where I am now @Former-Member anyways.. 😬🚶.. gets hard sometimes, well when I put my head up. Am working part time on call , go to work next day sometimes just picking up scraps as opposed to even 3-4 yrs ago when it seemed to make sense.. just gets harder and harder to engage or give a shit re work or life when there is nothing good or beneficial on offer. Anyways. Interesting times. I foretold it myself 15 years ago in a way while sliding along the bottom/taking bad advice bla bla
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Unknown userMember
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Similar @TAB, but different didn't meet anyone, didn't want kids due to my traumas and wouldn't bring a child in to endure what I went through.Only thing is it did contribute to my breakdown at age 40 due to realising I never lived life.At the same point,got another job knockback this morning via email which only causes distress.
I get that P***** off at seeking "help" five years ago...all it did was help me sabatage my self further .
I get that P***** off at seeking "help" five years ago...all it did was help me sabatage my self further .
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TABSenior Contributor
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Well I have my moods @Former-Member .. facts don't change. I avoid/re envisage ok thats hope I think lol
