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So on wednesday I went to see my gp about a skin spot I was finding to be quite suspicious and the news turned out to be not what I expected. They want the spot surgically removed urgently as in tuesday unless others cancel and i can get in earlier. They want the whole thing and as it looks like its spreading already they want more than just the top taken off then if it comes back malignanat more tests to see how far its spread then removed those areas
the worrying part is i dont know how long its been there for and because ive noticed it change twice its a very bad sign. Unintentionally coming off her was fear. Fear from others makes me worse and she was sending off alot of that. She pointed out 2 other points that she noticed that are really not good and are often seen in skin cancers.
Im so scared and it seems like tuesday is taking forever to get here. Its really not easy to sit with and accept. Im bloody pertrified!
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Goodnight big sis. Ill sleep ibe got you and others keeping me safe ❤ I hope you get some sleep too you've got a busyish day tomorrow ❤❤❤❤ @Sans911
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@Former-Member I'm fading too hun, I'm on my usual sleeping tablets which don't work, so I've added something else. Please, please try to rest even if you don't sleep. If you don't feel safe, please talk to one of the mods here, or SCBS, BEYONDBLUE. Try to keep yourself safe, ok? You are so, so precious in this world. Goodnight sweetheart xc
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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For sure @Former-Member we all needed lighthearted convo. No one heres offended. 4btwnot 3.
Im headed to bed now though. Good night @Former-Member ❤
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Well said @Sans911 ❤
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Unknown userMember
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thanks @Sans911. I have taken something about an hour ago so don't think anything will make me sleep tonght. Tonight has been a good distraction with some laughs thrown in so has taken my mind of things. But we all know nights are the worst. I will reach out if I am having difficulty and do not fell safe.
Sleep sound Sans, I will be ok and talk to you tomorrow
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@Former-Member - I so agree with you, but I can see some people would come across this thread & be grossed out. I can talk about everything and eat a sandwich at the same time. And yes, if anyone was offended, it wasn't intentional. It did just take off on its own. And these light hearted, funny moments of life are sometimes just what is needed in otherwise heavy, difficult days.
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Unknown userMember
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Keep smiling All its a good look! @outlander@Former-Member@Sans911 ((((((GROUP HUGZ))))) Luv Bella XXX 🙂
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Nope there it goes What the shite Stupid brain 😞
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@Former-Member I don't know you that well, but I feel I just made a new forum friend. You seem like a really nice person and it's been a jolly good craic with tonight. Thanks for helping to lighten the mood. I'm logging off now, been in enough trouble already. One more and it might be 3 strikes you're out! I Goodnight hun
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