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RE: Darkness surrounds me
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
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@outlander@Former-Member living with family is really hard ... I couldnt live with my mum she would drive me crazy and vice versa. Particularly since you have your health issues. Makes it very hard for you indeed.
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@Sans911have a nice night
@Bunniekinsall that food looks delicious
@outlandersometimes it is like choosing out of two bad options which is really really crappy. Sitting with you tonight hun 
But kit kats sound yum @outlander. I love this time of year especially for strawberries and cherries. Could live on them in the summer time 
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
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@Former-Member@outlander wont take me long to be away with the fairies! with the champagne that is ...What fun we would have!
@outlander NellBell's right having to pick between the worst of two evils.
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@Bunniekinsmy mother lives with me too. She has a separate unit but attached to our house. It used to be both my parents until my father passed away.
It is very hard now and very demanding on me
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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I havent got a clue what to do. Why am i always the one that has to pick. I kow it sounds mean but pops older and its his house why couldnt he just make up his mind without blaming me for it . He said he didn't know if he could stay cause i as in me might not like it 😞 @Former-Member @Bunniekins i can literally feel the weight on my shoulders
Champagne and strawberries sound good too!
Champagne and strawberries sound good too!
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
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@Former-Member@outlander I didn't know that. Does she understand even a little bit of what is happening to you? My mother does thank God? We laugh about some of my antics although I havent gone into details of my night walks ... she is 82 she would have a heart attack if she knew everything ...
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Unknown userMember
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@outlandercould you put it back onto your Pop and tell him that it is his house so he should make the decision. Just tell him that you have thought about it and think that it is best if he makes the decision.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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He always does that to me @Former-Member when i turn it back he cant decide and if he says no he blames it on me anyway 😞
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
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@outlander@Former-Member I dont know why.... some people just love to delegate and then they can put the blame (if it doesnt work out) on the person they have delegated to ... I bet you can feel the weight on your shoulders ...
Champagne and strawbs are yummy! That is a def!
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@Bunniekinsshe has lived with me for about 11 years. As I said a separate unit (thank god). My father passed away 2 yrs ago and she has not coped one bit. She relies on me a lot.
She knows I am not working but thinks it is b/c of some incidents that happened at work (which is partly true). No clue about all my past trauma and I would never tell her anyway. Even though she lives with me, I don't have a close relationship with her. I would never sit down and talk to her about what I am going through.
