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RE: Darkness surrounds me
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Re: RE: Darkness surrounds me
Thank you @Sans911 @Former-Member
i had a shower to try and help but no luck so just watching some tv to try and see if that helps.
@Sans911 More strange dreams, you must be exhausted too hun, doesn’t seem like you are getting much sleep either
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@Former-Member @Sans911
Good Morning my sisters & friends.
A shower sounds sooo nice, I need one of them too? I'm seeing my Doctor today.
I know how hard it is get relief from stress. I understand about bad dreams too. I have to be very mindful not to let my thoughts wonder into my past too long, or I end up dreaming some mixed up mess, distressing dreams?
I usually try to tell myself this is because I'm too stressed, from over thinking & need to...........
When we dream frightening/distressing dreams, it can be for many reasons?
One reason, is unresolved issues with family/people, or ones self?
When our mind is in the state of deep sleep, it
tries to work things out, with far too much info stored up. This info gets so jumbled up in our over crowded memory. Its sorta like jumping from one channel to the next, with the TV remote. Then it makes no sense, & our body is not relaxed to be refreshed when waking up.
I suppose waiting for your meds to work, even though its a good thing in the long run, is hard for you at the moment?
There is a light at the end of this, I hope you don't have too much longer to wait, Nellbell?
((((((GroupHug)))))))
I love you both!
Talk again soon.
Bella xxoo 🙂
Good Morning my sisters & friends.
A shower sounds sooo nice, I need one of them too? I'm seeing my Doctor today.
I know how hard it is get relief from stress. I understand about bad dreams too. I have to be very mindful not to let my thoughts wonder into my past too long, or I end up dreaming some mixed up mess, distressing dreams?
I usually try to tell myself this is because I'm too stressed, from over thinking & need to...........
When we dream frightening/distressing dreams, it can be for many reasons?
One reason, is unresolved issues with family/people, or ones self?
When our mind is in the state of deep sleep, it
tries to work things out, with far too much info stored up. This info gets so jumbled up in our over crowded memory. Its sorta like jumping from one channel to the next, with the TV remote. Then it makes no sense, & our body is not relaxed to be refreshed when waking up.
I suppose waiting for your meds to work, even though its a good thing in the long run, is hard for you at the moment?
There is a light at the end of this, I hope you don't have too much longer to wait, Nellbell?
((((((GroupHug)))))))
I love you both!
Talk again soon.
Bella xxoo 🙂
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@Former-Member ❤❤❤
@Sans911 another bad night for you too huh ❤❤❤
@Sans911 another bad night for you too huh ❤❤❤
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@Former-Member @Former-Member @Former-Member @outlander l
Here's something to give you a good giggle
Bella that was YOU that was supposed to be tagged in this thread. Sorry, I can't find my specs and I've just noticed my typo after zooming in..
'2secs later while looking at my sneakers & general chaos of my room' specs have fallen down other side of sneakers-WTF?! I note to self. DO NOT trust auto correction or 3am eyes when texting in public arenas. You ending up with with all sorts of double meanings. Check my post to @CheerBear from this morning.
Off to find gaffer tape to fasten specs to face.
Here's something to give you a good giggle
Bella that was YOU that was supposed to be tagged in this thread. Sorry, I can't find my specs and I've just noticed my typo after zooming in..
'2secs later while looking at my sneakers & general chaos of my room' specs have fallen down other side of sneakers-WTF?! I note to self. DO NOT trust auto correction or 3am eyes when texting in public arenas. You ending up with with all sorts of double meanings. Check my post to @CheerBear from this morning.
Off to find gaffer tape to fasten specs to face.
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Unknown userMember
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Thanks @Former-Member, I like how you explained the dreams jumping from one channel to the next, I can understand that!
I hope you have a wonderful day
Love Nell
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@outlanderHOW ARE YOU?
You can post here or in your thread. I know yesterday and last night wasn't a great time. I have read your thread. Am around for most of today if you want to have a chat or just sit. Luv ya sis 
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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I seen that @Sans911 lol i knew who you were trying to tag but it made no sense lol
@Former-Member love you too sis ❤
@Former-Member love you too sis ❤
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Unknown userMember
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@Sans911haha found the post! Luckily I don't need my glasses to type, only to drive!
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Unknown userMember
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Poor @Sans911!💓
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
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Hi @Former-Member
We really haven't communicated a great deal here - I stay with a few people I get to know well and try not to spread myself to thinly - but I can always find room for one more and I can let you know I do read quite a bit without posting and I know things are not easy for you
I take it you had a bad night - and you are having a rough time lately and I understand - and I care a whole lot -
Sometimes we have to say things we would rather not - to ease your mind - I have had to myself and it is likely to cause all sorts of anguish - but imo it went well and I think things will be okay.
I don't know what else to say - but support is required to all involved - I had a bad spell a while back and having support when stuff happens is important - so I heard and I am here for both of you - as much as we can be on-line
I have unresolved issues with my own family - and seeing as it is impossible to sort out family disagreements when other people have the right to their own beliefs that they are the only people with the right opinions it is better to try and let all that go - easier said than done - but being alone is better than being a toxic environment
I hope you can get past those dreams and nightmares as well - we never want to go back there but own mind can be wilful at times - and
I hope things go well with your doctors appointment today
All the best Bella
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