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SPRING-Clean Declutter - Need Help

SPRING-Clean Declutter - Need Help

The ALL-YEAR-ROUND job of DECLUTTERING and CLEANING our homes is daunting. Especially for those of us who HOARD, or struggle with depression, and decisions, anxiety & other MI. I'm so challenged in this way so reaching out for support. Maybe start an Declutterers Army 💪

If you suffer the same challenge or have some great suggestions - type away... 💙💜💙💜💙💜💙

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I hope you have a good week too @Former-Member, & everyone.

Rats in the wall is not fun. I have a very keen sense of smell, so if one dies in there I'm sure I will smell it...

Adge

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Re: SPRING-Clean Declutter - Need Help

Thanks @Former-Member, @Owlunar, @Faith-and-Hope, @Adge, @Appleblossom & @Former-Member 💜

Dugga, I'm so impressed with your productive day:
- cleaned & relocated a rug
- three bags sorted for the attic
- garden pruning
- carrot juicing
Wow! And its Sunday!
Not good re your back feeling "totally stuffed" - happens to me too when I overdo it. Hope it settles with rest & v & you sleep well tonight. 💜💜

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One more bag of magazines cleared from the spare bedroom and donated to community health centre @Former-Member

Starting to be able to see doona on spare bed.

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Hi @Former-Member yep, clear beds, benches, tables & floors sure make a home look tidy. Good job on the magazines. I have a pile high 😶. Its just all to much here atm 😧

Did clear away the weeds from the grape vine which i thought died, and had pruned back to the stump, so very pleased to see it coming back.☺

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Still far from clear @Former-Member but visible progress. Nice finding the vine growing.

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I can't do this 😖 why can't I do this.

With my "spring clean, fix & decluttering my house" (currently on the market 4sale this last 2months). The Real Estate agent dropped in on her way home from work today to 'have a talk' She said we should have had an offer from the viewings & politely suggested I get more serious about decluttering! 😞 Especially in my bedroom. She suggested I at least clear off my bed, get rid of some clothes & just have a bed and dresser in there 😱 😨😵😨😱 I hate conformity! 😥 But there you go - I've been told - boohoo - such is life 😭 Have to somehow require more of myself 😞 Wjy can't i just chuck things 😤this has to be an MI, i might have to go back to my psychologist about this 😖 oh, its Christmas 😟

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Think a few are finding it all a bit too hard at the moment @Former-Member.

If I can deal with a couple of things a day I am satisfied (even if it is only 2 bits of paper).

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Can you put some clothes neatly into carry bags @Former-Member, and when people are being shown through, place them into the boot of your car ?

The criteria is having the space tidy enough. It's up to you how many clothes you have and where you choose to keep them.

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hmm, maybe, thanks guys

did get rid of some stress today
walked to the shops, not far away
layed around for days on end
hurting inside, holding my head
nobody knows, who can see
the smallest things cripple me
grief and loneliness mostly hurt
but broken kin hurt the worst

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Just thought I'd try find ancient texts about hoarding - still looking but this spells is pretty clear, and to think it was written 2,000 years ago, when it was my understanding they had nothing much of any processions 😱Go figure 😮

ITRW: trying to figure out where to start with bedrooms. My wardrobe, my girls room. 😞

Maybe I need to go on a hunger strike, deny myself, to push this scourge out of me, like a spiritual fast, pull my flesh in line, or something. Its gotta stop. Its like gambling, a little win doesn't make up for the deficit 😞

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