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SPRING-Clean Declutter - Need Help

SPRING-Clean Declutter - Need Help

The ALL-YEAR-ROUND job of DECLUTTERING and CLEANING our homes is daunting. Especially for those of us who HOARD, or struggle with depression, and decisions, anxiety & other MI. I'm so challenged in this way so reaching out for support. Maybe start an Declutterers Army 💪

If you suffer the same challenge or have some great suggestions - type away... 💙💜💙💜💙💜💙

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Hi @Former-Member & fellow declutterers, sorry i have not been posting. i have been having a hard time battling within myself which then takes me back down the rabbit hole again, the good news is i am not going as deep as i used to, so i will keep moving forward very slowly. I will not be able to check in every day as i am not at your levels of recovery yet, but i do get messages from you when i am messaged which has been nice to know i have been thought of, when my life looks bleak, i read the posts even if i cant answer. i did put out a wheelie bin of rubbish for collection today, so I am happy with that today. Well must sign off, regards, @1stepup61

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@1stepup61

Great to hear you are making progress and that the rabbit hole is just a little less deep. Gently, gently, encouragement, not pressure.
HUGE achievement that wheelie bin is full and out.

@utopia no pressure either but can I encourage you to move 2 more things off the table?

My bin emptied today, so opportunity awaits.
Darcy

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@Former-Member

Is there one spot I can encourage you to tackle? Dare I suggest that you get a mate to confiscate your keys the day before hard rubbish collection day and return them after?

Well done @Shaz51 re: cosmetics. Are you happy with what is now left?

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Re: SPRING-Clean Declutter - Need Help

@Former-Member. Just a day for breathing, not cleaning.

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Thanks @Former-Member - most councils in Melbourne now have booked hard rubbish collections for individual houses rather than the old twice yearly collections for the whole suburb so I tend to drive around and spot a random pile to pick through. It's also bad when people say "oh I found something you might like" and then I can't say no so more stuff for the garage. At least it hasn't made it into the house so far. I need to have a big cleanout.

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cosmetics. Are you happy with what is now left?-- Yes @Former-Member, have to go shopping now

Hugs @utopia

Hello @Former-Member, @Former-Member, @1stepup61

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@utopia ... take care

@Former-Member - keeping it out the house is major.
Perhaps a garage sale

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PROGRESS!!!

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You're doing well @Former-Member! 💕🎶💕

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Thanks @Kurra 💜 How ya going, retired yet? Thinking of u with my back / neck pain & stiffness today. Will need something stronger than usual after this fasting blood test. Life isn't easy. U know that saying "feel the fear & do it anyway" - well I say, "feel the pain & do it anyway" lol kinda lol, not really, better shut up lol 🙂
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