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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hoping then you get some time to yourself then @outlander, even though I know that will probably be hard with your Pop there.

I have got the kids some chocolates and a jumper each but thats it. I think they are too old now for the Easter Bunny 😊

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Yeah i think the youngest one kinda has an inkling too @Snowie weve never really pressed the easter bunny except when she was really little, christmas was more the main one but with her just starting yr 5 i think last yr mightve been last yr for believing too. We would still keep it special like surprise gifts and stockings crafty and baking
sort of stuff etc but not the whole santa hype

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Well hopefully they still enjoy the day hon @outlander

Do you have them much in the holidays at all or will you be able to get some time to yourself?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Yeah im guessing everyday except maybe weekends @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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That will keep you busy hon @outlander

I hope you are able to get some time to yourself too.

I haven't got much on on the holidays. H will still be working. Will try and take the kids out to some places to keep them occupied.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I hope so too @Snowie i really hope for some breaks. Havent even booked any horses in for care except 2 (same owner) only cause of an urgent matter.
Hopefully you can find some things you all like to do. With D working im sure she will appreciate abit of downtime too before school goes back too.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hopefully so @outlander

I really hope you get some time to yourself hon.

Will say goodnight. Have to get up early to take D to work so time for my bedtime.

I hope you are able to get some sleep tonight sweetie. Will check in on you tomorrow.

Lots and lots of love hon 💕💕

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Good night @Snowie

Sleep and dream well tonight my friend.

Lots of love 💕

More hugs @outlander 💜🤗💜🤗💜

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Good morning sis @outlander

Hoping you got some sleep last night and today is a little better for you.

Lots and lots of love sweetheart 💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Snowie @Eve7 @Appleblossom @Emelia8 @Sans911 @Anastasia

Sending love to you all, just trying to make it through atm. Ive decided to bake some cupcakes to donate to one of the places thatll be handing out free meals tomorrow so im making them tonight to take to the lady tomorrow morning.

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