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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 Mar 2021, 11:24 pm AEDT

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Thanks sis @Sans911 💕

I dont mind helping 😘 as long as im not 'here' im tired but to scared to sleep. Have to try and stay up till 1130 to take the 4th dose of med then i get to do it all again tomorrow. Thankfully i know i can stop one steroids treatment in 3 days but not sure about the antibiotics one yet.
Oh i have been missing Mr A! I will be joining him indeed!

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AussieRechargerSenior Contributor30 Mar 2021, 11:37 pm AEDT

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Mr A sounds like a nickname for an ex....

How was your day @outlander and @Sans911 ?

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Sans911Senior Contributor30 Mar 2021, 11:57 pm AEDT

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Hey @AussieRecharger
I haven't seen you for a few days. How are you?

The though of an ex stretched on the bed does give me a giggle though!

Mr A is my cat!! Lol. I used to have two cats so Mr A got his anonymous name in case I was identified on social media. My other fur boy was Jasper. He was put to eternal sleep a year ago.

I know I haven't mentioned my cat in a while @outlander have I? He gave me such a hard time around 3am today. Pushed my phones off the bedside table, hit me in the face over and over, jumped on me several times. Just for food! I mean, the size of him is enough to make anyone think he's not fed enough!

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Sans911Senior Contributor31 Mar 2021, 12:02 am AEDT

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@AussieRechargerjust for you. Mr A

And of course for @outlander too

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outlanderSenior Contributor31 Mar 2021, 12:23 am AEDT

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Aw cute @Sans911 but soubds like he was nauggty today 😬

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Sans911Senior Contributor31 Mar 2021, 12:32 am AEDT

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I'm hoping I can eventually afford to buy an automatic pet feeder for Mr A @outlander. That way I can stay in bed!

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outlanderSenior Contributor31 Mar 2021, 4:40 am AEDT

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Thatd be pretty good @Sans911 at least youd get a sleep in!

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AussieRechargerSenior Contributor31 Mar 2021, 10:02 am AEDT

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Heys @Sans911,

I am good, thanks for asking. It's been a busy few days with sick kids and assignments due and stuff but I love the kindness of this place so it keeps bringing me back. Mr A looks mischievous and certainly like someone who wants to keep his master on their toes. You know the way to a mans heart is through his stomach and he was showing you his love for you, now get me food (lol, sounds like a toxic relationship when you put it that way, bloody cats).

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SnowieSenior Contributor31 Mar 2021, 4:39 pm AEDT

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@outlander 💞💞💞

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PeriSenior Contributor31 Mar 2021, 6:27 pm AEDT

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Hi @Anastasia ,

i am with you, you have worries at the moment. So take care of yourself,

are you changing name again.

peri

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