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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Eve7 @Bow and @Clawde 💕

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Hugs my sister @outlander ❤❤

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Im slipping backwards again, the more my physical heslth takes a hit the more i just want to give up. I am struggling to afford well me and my own needs.

I know theres no 'normal' but i think this is abit beyond what is normal for most.

I am really tired and so much of it not onky comes from caring but because of me and my ailments. I cant ever get rid of any or heal, i just seem to add to the list and i dont know how much more i can handle

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jazzSenior Contributor

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hey there @outlander I know it can be a big struggle, and you know you have gotten through tough times before. please call the helplines and get support as per safety plans should things escalate for you, please take care of yourself

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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@outlander 💕💕💕💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Sans911💜💜👋☕

Hows your day been?

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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@outlander hugs x

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Anastasia 💕

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PeriSenior Contributor

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Dear @outlander ,

dealing with both physical and mental health issues is exhausting so make sure you are getting adequate rest. But I know that you have responsibilities too. You deal with a lot I think you are an amazing young woman. Try to do something just for you today.

skin stuff is a pain. I have developed a form of mature age eczema. It drives me nuts some days even with the ointments.

Thinking of you

💖 peri

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Peri 💕 thank you for your kind words. Its tough here


@Emelia8 @Sans911 how are you both? 💜
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