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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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@Emelia8 thinking of you with these floods too

Is the water starting to receed abit for you? Or has it been heavy downpours again for you too

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Hi @outlander

Still raining today, with some intermittent heavy showers ... but the floodwaters have receded a lot in the last day.

Am even able to get into the neighbouring town now, so I'm hopeful that Holly can get her tests done at the vets tomorrow.

So much has been cancelled though. My appointment with oncologist in bigger town over an hours north of here, was changed to a phone consult because I couldnt get there. And they have been hit badly by floods too.

My pilates class in town today was cancelled because of floods. Hubby's dermatologist apt for a melanoma checkup was cancelled this morning due to floods and staff unable to get into the town. Hubby's neurologist apt in major regional town 2 hours south of here, I am trying to get changed to a phone consult. Hoping to hear back from them soon to confirm.

Hoping today is the last of the heavy rain, and things can start to get back to normal. So sad though, with a great deal of local people losing everything (including livestock) from their farms and businesses. Just heartbreaking.

Hope you are coping okay where you are. I suspect you are in an area near where my step daughter lives. She is okay, but has said there had been heavy rain at times thru yesterday and today. My step son lives in the Northern Rivers, and they are copping it badly now too. These floods are affecting a lot of people now.

Emelia 🤗💞

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Its quite devastating see all the homes, shops, pets and cars being lost. Hard when flood waters rise so much and so quickly as well.
Theres just been 2 roads closed here again which are 2 main roads. I cant get north due to flooding, and also destroyed roads too if i did have any appts but thankfully i dont for a few weeks. South isnt to bad but in regards to road closures but have alot of flooding still and warnings about rivers rising etc.

Im glad the waters receeded quite quickly for you, hopefully the worst of the rains done. There have been warnings that the worst isnt over for our area just yet though @Emelia8

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@Emelia8 hi Pumkin how are you really doing, you look like your holding up so strongly, so much of life's crap keeps coming at you but you keep the rest of together Thankyou so much PS@@Clawde loves you I just love you too. Have a great day what we have left of it, I am at work tomorrow ########## holiday or week off went to quick. Need to earn money to pay for me and my Cat, Dog and Bird and the new frig payments, still struggling with the Diploma bull, and never got to go fishing because of this ######## sick of it weather hope the roads aren't closed to get to work but we are all safe here, and have had a great break away thanks to the Sane web site and people like you and all our friends here Thankyou ❤️👍🌻love to you all from @@Clawde ❤️

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My love to you @outlander @your amazing thanks for your posts❤️

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Thanks again and again for your loyal support my favorite @Emelia8 Clawde loves you ❤️You are and angel on this Sane web thing 😇

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Thank you Clawde @Clawde 🤗 you're such a sweetheart 🌹

Your week off work has flown by so quickly. I'm disappointed for you that you never got to go fishing, as a result of the attrocious weather conditions that so much of the East Coast of Australia has experienced this past week. Yes, unfortunately we all need to earn our keep dont we? One way or another ... so back to work it is for you. 😔 Must keep the cat, dog and bird well fed and cared for. And you too of course Clawde. 🌹 I do hope you dont have any road closures which could prevent you getting back to work tomorrow. Its good that you still managed to enjoy your break, despite you not being able to do much of what you had planned. It sounds like you are struggling somewhat with your Diploma at present. Is there someone at the TAFE or online who could help out in some way? They often have counsellors or liaison people I believe, who lend a hand when needed. For whatever the reason. They are there to help, so it could be worth asking.

Love you too Clawde. Please take good care of yourself.

Emelia 🤗💞

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Good afternoon @outlander

Sorry I dropped out last night. Fell asleep early after taking my meds.

I hope today has been ok for you hon.

Thinking of you lots and lots of love and hugs to you 💜💜💜

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@Sans911, Good on ya for getting on with it. I have developed a saying recently that the eyes are in the front of your head so you keep looking forward. Theres a reason why its so hard to look backwards and thats so you don't do it to often.

Well thats my thoughts for the day anyways.

If anyone is having a hard day, I hope you reach out here because there seems to be a lot of love in this place. Too bad we can't bottle it and send love to those who need it.

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@Clawde 🌻
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