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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hi sis @outlander

So good to see you

How are you going?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Just kind of hanging in there @Snowie
how are you?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Oh hon @outlander , you are going through so much at the moment sweetie.

I hope for your sake it gets a little easier for you.

I am okish. H gone away for weekend.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Snowie i cant see it getting much better for a while. in a few days itll be a big aniversary for one of my worst traumas, easter is really hard for me because of it and it happening basically easter day so its all abit messy seeing everything even to do with easter as welll then a few more aniversaries in april as well.
have also been trying to get some help of an eating disorder as well and im going to try and brave speaking to someone on monday in person about it

do you have a busy weekend? or enough to keep yourself occupied and safe while H is away?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander sorry to hear that it isn't a good time for you. Just remember that we are here to support you in any way we can hon.

Well done for being brave enough to speak to someone. No doubt it will be hard for you but you have shown so much strength in just making the appointment.

Today was fairly busy but tomorrow isn't.

H deserves the break, he hasn't been on a boys weekend away for ages. He had to give me all my meds for the weekend. I am hoping I can control it and control my brain.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Snowie
the health professional i will try to talk to ive been seeing her for quite a few yrs on and off so just have to maybe try and say something

youve done well so far, youve managed to get through today, just need tonight and tomorrow now. does h come back tomorrow arvo or monday?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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He comes back tomorrow evening @outlander so getting there.

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MazaritaSenior Contributor

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Love to you as well, @outlander.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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your doing well @Snowie
i will be around tonight and abit more tomorrow hopefully. im mostly just doing abit of cleaning up here. cant get to my horses in my small car but theyve been checked by others with 4wds and are fine so puts my mind at ease.

what are you doing tomorrow?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Glad your horses are doing ok @outlander

Is that because of the rain hon?

Have to take D to work in the morning but thats about it for tomorrow. S goes on camp on Monday so will have to organise everything for him tomorrow.

Have you got any plans?

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