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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor17 Mar 2021, 8:01 pm AEDT

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@outlander sis 💕

I'm sorry to hear you are not going well hon.

We are all here for you sweetie, even though I know it is not the same as having that support irl.

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outlanderSenior Contributor17 Mar 2021, 8:59 pm AEDT

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Thanks @Snowie im lucky to have you all.
Its never ending here. Its like ww3. Im really over it but theres nothing i can do.
I know it upsets and frustrates you guys here as well because of this stupid situation. Ive just walked out of home because im up to the 25th argument just today (yep i m actually counting them atm) even had mum on the phone a few times trying to talk to him. Needed some air so im going for a drive for a while.

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SnowieSenior Contributor17 Mar 2021, 9:10 pm AEDT

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It's great that you are removing yourself from the situation hun @outlander and hopefully gives you a bit of time to calm down and also just to regather you thoughts. The only reason it upsets me is because of everything you have to go through. I hate seeing my sis have to go though so much whilst I am inthe background not be able to do much.

Nothertheless I will always be here for you hun because you are my sister and I love you ❤❤

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outlanderSenior Contributor17 Mar 2021, 9:18 pm AEDT

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@Snowie @Emelia8 @Jupiter

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outlanderSenior Contributor17 Mar 2021, 10:16 pm AEDT

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@Sans911 💜

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Sans911Senior Contributor17 Mar 2021, 10:21 pm AEDT

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I'm so glad to hear from you lil Sis @outlander. I'm so sorry, I won't be online long. I've had a rough few days, and I'm in agony atm. So I've taken my evening meds early plus some extra pain stuff.

Things sound as tough as they've ever been for you. ❤️❤️❤️

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outlanderSenior Contributor17 Mar 2021, 10:27 pm AEDT

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@Sans911 💜💜💜
Im heading to bed too.
Hope your pain eases so you can sleep abit

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PeriSenior Contributor17 Mar 2021, 10:48 pm AEDT

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Dear @outlander ,

whar an awful feeling alone is. Keep popping in here and lean on some of us. I wish that I could help you, but I can listen to what is troubling you. And offer you friendship and caring,

peri x

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor18 Mar 2021, 12:16 am AEDT

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@outlander 🤗🙏💞

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Bellarose75Senior Contributor18 Mar 2021, 4:22 am AEDT

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You are an incredibly strong, loving soul little one, it amazes me with how much you handle for one so young. You are a gift to your loved ones and sometimes they really don't deserve you. Sending you some love and support wishing there was something else I could do for you. @outlander

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