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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor08 Mar 2021, 5:34 pm AEDT

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@NatureLover have been thinking about you and your glasses. I really hope you can get them corrected, you shouldn't be afraid to wear them. I also hope your feeling better, i know you were sick for a few days 💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor08 Mar 2021, 5:34 pm AEDT

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@Sans911 i hope all your appts go well today 💜

@Snowie 💚

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outlanderSenior Contributor08 Mar 2021, 5:47 pm AEDT

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@Emelia8 💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor08 Mar 2021, 8:48 pm AEDT

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Would anyone be around atm?

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor08 Mar 2021, 9:01 pm AEDT

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In and out a bit ATM @outlander , are you ok sweetheart?

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outlanderSenior Contributor08 Mar 2021, 9:12 pm AEDT

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not really tbh @Anastasia but im feeling guilty for even asking atm.

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor08 Mar 2021, 9:16 pm AEDT

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Please don't feel guilty, I'm here for you as long as I can be sweetheart 💞

Do you want to talkmor.just sit together?

@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor08 Mar 2021, 9:23 pm AEDT

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Im struggling with pain. Theres no options left. @Anastasia this is how ill be now and i dont want to live with it

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor08 Mar 2021, 9:30 pm AEDT

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I hear you @outlander I'm so sorry you are in so much pain. I guess after appointment the hope you had has been depleted somewhat?

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TideisTurningSenior Contributor08 Mar 2021, 9:31 pm AEDT

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That sounds tough @outlander. Pain isn't an easy thing to deal with, especially when it seems like all the options have been exhausted. If what you're experiencing starts to feel too distressing, please don't hesitate to reach out to someone. There's Lifeline (13 11 14) or Sane's Helpcente operates between 10am-10pm weekdays, resuming tomorrow, if you'd just like to speak to someone 1:1. In the mean time, sitting with you as you navigate this rocky road 💜

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