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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Hello @Sans911 I’ve Just taken my meds and fading fast.

I hope your day has been ok and yours too @outlander

I’m just having a cuppa if you want to join me.

💛☕️💛

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Hiya love @Eve7

I'm just finishing my dinner, so a cup of tea would be great.

It's been a very up, down, up day hun. It finished better than it started

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PeriSenior Contributor

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Dear @outlander ,I don’t know all that is going on for you at the moment and you don’t need to tell me, I can look back.

but I am thinking of you, as you have so often thought of me and supported me. It sounds like you have a lot on your hands. I al pleased that you have a supportive and loyal following here. Just know that I am here too and am often awake late into the night, if you need company then.

Peri

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I’m glad it finished better than it started @Sans911 hope it remains that way for you.

I want a peaceful weekend 💛

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Sans911 @Peri @Eve7

Ill check in when im home. I will hopefully be home fairly soon, worried about pops wandering habits atm mum will be home in avout 20 min or so then ill leace so will be home avout midnight

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

@Sans911 are you still up...?

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Yes I am @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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How are you sis @Sans911

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Very tired lil Sis @outlander but trying to stay awake just a little bit longer. I'll take my meds soon.

I keep a track of my sleep patterns & hours, and I took a look tonight. It's not good, and something I need to improve very quickly.

Have you had a busy day?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Hopefully you can get your sleeping patterns to improve. Mayve theres something natural that you could take or make up an oil blend to help get you on the right track.. @Sans911

.im tired too. I dread the nights even more now because of recent events but also because pop is showing signs of sundowning. When the nights roll around i know theres going to be alot of repetirive chats
Had a really awful bout of pain earlier from neck injury and the nerve damage , nothing unusul but its taking its toll on me alot and it affects my sleep (plus thr stomach issues which really limits my sleeping positions!)

Not an overly busy day though mostly horses and kids and got a few other things sorted or partly sorted too like a date for a hospital admission
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