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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Thanks @Mazarita
Its not till monday thankfully

How are you

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Morning @outlander @Mazarita @MDT @Eve7 @frog and anyone else around.

Looks like notifications are up and running again.

Hoping you all have a good day.

Lots of love and hugs 💜💜💜

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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Hello @outlander

Just seeing your posts now, you have been busy!!!!

Well done and I am certain your place will be just perfect for tomorrow. I know I freak out before an inspection but I try to focus on the fact that they are looking for damage not pristine tidiness. Helps a little.

My place is far from pristine or tidy most days. I've had to succumb to acceptance otherwise I'd have gone bananas over the last couple of years. Love and hugs.

P.S Let me know how you go tomorrow 🙏🌻🌷🌸🤞🤗

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Morning @Anastasia @Snowie @Emelia8 @Eve7 @Mazarita @Sans911 @frog @ and everyone

Had a god awful night with pop so am really tired as a result of that plus yesterday and no sleep thr night before but ive done the horses, scrubbed the bathroom, helped pop out his clothes away and my own.
Ive had to help pop go through his old clothes and label his draws because he was getting to confused and not being able to find what he was looking for. Hopefully the labels help.
Not to much to do today except abit of a road trip to pick something up and general housekeeping.
Have contracters coming for some repairs as well tomorrow throughout the day.

Hoping you all have some niceness in your days 💙

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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@outlander

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Let’s have a cuppa @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

✅ horses done
✅ curtains all washed
✅ screens washed
✅interior Windows washed
✅ dishes done
✅ kitchen cleaned
✅ pops room cleaned, bed made, vaccumed

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Anastasia @Eve7
A tea would be great

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Gee sis you are on a roll @outlander

Remember to take some time for yourself in amongst getting everything done 💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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The house is nearly done @Snowie just waiting on curtains to dry to hang back up.
Ive just finished my room except vacuuming so only have the mopping ans vaccuming in the kitchen and lounge room to do and a quick tidy up of the bathroom left to do but ill do that later when i dont have people walkiny in and out. Have to take an hr or so trip and then back to pick something up and drop my sister's bf home abit later as well
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