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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Is anyone around atm?

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Emelia8Senior Contributor

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Yes @outlander I am 😄💖

But notifications are not working. And I have a tradie here doing some home modifications as recommended by hubbys OT way back in November.

So far got hand rail at front steps, and new easy to use taps in vanity.

Emelia 🌷

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Im nor feeling like im coping to well today @Emelia8

Im glad that your getting those modifications done. We have quite a few modifications done to our house too

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Afternoon tea here @outlander

💜💙💜

Hold on sis we’re here for you.

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BowSenior Contributor

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got some spare strawberry iced donuts here and strawberry milk.... treat for my d after she had to have a covid test 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yum @Bow
covid tests arent fun, i hope they come back clear for her and you!

@Eve7 trying to hang on but struggling alot physically and making it mentally harder. having a hard time with one of the horses owners as well.

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Emelia8Senior Contributor

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Oh I'm so sorry @outlander ... your notification didnt come through, until just now!

Really sorry you are not coping well today, it sounds really tough. I'm so glad that you have had @Eve7 @Bow here to keep you company.

The modifications have been a long time coming Li'l One. Delayed over the Christmas break and usual tradie limbo in January I guess. Got a few of the jobs done today, which was great. Particularly the hand rail up the front steps. And the ensuite sink taps are also great. Hubby leaves the water running all the time, just cant turn the taps off properly. The new ones are so easy ... a lever type that you just push to turn on or off. They had to measure up some things for made to measure items, so could not finish everything today. They will come back to complete the other jobs once the ordered items come in. Could be another week or two, but at least I know they havent forgotten us now.

Emelia 💞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im sorry i have to go. im sorry, i have to deal with pop and 2 squabling kids. i think i need more help, i have to brave my mother and say that. i need a break from him. im struggling to handle kids and him esp when i have to take kids out when hes being an idiot

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I had baklava and tea @Bow @outlander and anyone else passing by.

💜🦋

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander here for you sis 💜💜

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