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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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That does sound like it puts you in a difficult situation @outlander

I'm sorry to hear that he puts you through it. It certainly is not fair on you.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Makes it tough @Snowie
I worry about his driving too esp since its wet and getting dark soon

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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It would make it tough hun, another thing for you to worry about @outlander

Would it help if you talked to your mum about it at all? Perhaps she could speak to your Auntie.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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When she lets me know that hes on his way home ill ask her what he wanted to talk to her about @Snowie she might not tell me but worth a go
Mum would just say dont worry about it

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hopefully she will tell you @outlander and I hope for your sake it isn't about you sweetie.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Its tricky @Snowie i always watch for signs her worsening or needs help etc but alot of the time unless hes having a go at me he doesnt involve me

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Sounds like you are stuck in the middle of this all @outlander

I can say don't take it personally but I can understand how hard it would be not too.

I'm sorry it is like this for you. You do not deserve to be treated like this.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I try not to worry to much about it @Snowie
Its just that i know what hes like when he gets on a roll esp when he drawd people in that basically agree with him

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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That must be hard for you @outlander

I hope for your sake it works out ok for you.

Will say goodnight hun, need to go try a few things (hopefully they help) before I try and go to bed.

Hoping you get some sleep tonight sweetie.

@Sans911 💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Goodnight @Snowie sleep well
St ay safe 💜
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