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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Former-Member @Lee82 🌷💌

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I wish i could get out of this house. I dont want to deal with pop all day with his antics right now.

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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Why don't you go for a walk honey? Or maybe just go for a drive down to the shops and just walk around there for a while? @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Ive been to the shops already to grab a few things, i done that while i was out this morning. I should've saved it for when pop was up 🤦‍♀️ @Lee82
I dont really have the energy for a walk, feels like im just going to vomit everywhere again. I might see about folding the clothes ive washed over the past day for abit or at least start it.
Even just being around him atm is making me on edge drained and irritated and i dont even know why.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Im sorry

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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It's ok to be feeling a little irritated with pops. You are dealing with a lot of emotions right now internally. I get the same way with my kids. They could just be asking me too many questions and that makes me feel irritated and annoyed with them. I just want to tell them to f**k off.
Folding clothes sounds like a good idea for now @outlander just keep distracted as best you can in anyway you can. ❣️

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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Why you saying sorry @outlander

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Hi @outlander,

I'm so sorry you've been struggling so much today (worse than yesterday) and that being stuck in isolation with your pop at the moment is not helping your mental health. I understand this can be incredibly hard because of the guilt and mixed feelings that can come when you are feeling this way about someone you care for. Please do not hesitate to reach out to the SANE Help Centre via phone (1800 18 72 63), or via chat, if needed!

Take very good care of yourself!

Kindest Regards,

Amour_Et_Psyché

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander just checking in on you hun. Hearing how hard today is going with lots of big feelings.

Hugs and love sweetheart ❤❤

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Lee82 @Snowie @Former-Member @Former-Member 💌

Folded the clothes but havent put them away yet. just been watching a movie. Was going to attempt something to nibble on but willl just wait for dinner now.

How are you guys going?

@Sans911 💜
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