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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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@outlander

💜💜🤗💜💜

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor

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@outlander Hey outlander thank you for your kindness and caring.Can I get back to you tomorrow as I am so tired tonight. I hope you are well but will talk then. Love to you my friend. peaxx

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jem80Senior Contributor

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@outlander

It's great to hear that you are keeping a diary when you get allergic reactions. I use to keep a diary on how I was going when I first developed my allergies and other injuries. That way when I saw my allergist I could tell them what has happened so I can develop a maintenance strategy and plan of what to do if something happens.

I can relate to the frustration when it's hard to figure out what you have been exposed to when having allergies.

I know from personal experience that I can relate to your exhaustion and coughing.

Hopefully you can find out what it is that keeps causing reactions.

For me it took a long time and multiple tests before my allergist got to the bottom of what I was allergic to. I also can relate to the medical expenses. Even though I get a Medicare rebate I still have to find the money to pay upfront.

Take care and rest up. Sending you hugs 🤗

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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of course @Bunniekins respond whenever you feel up for it. no pressure

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks for the understanding @jem80
i already know im severly lactose intolerant, allergic to wheat shrimp and also peanuts but theres something else but needs further investigation since simple blood tests didnt pick it up. have to wait for the allergenist, hopefully wont be to long of a wait

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor

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@outlander You are so kind outlander thank you. I am alright I think. I have my good days and my bad days. My moods will always violently flucuate due to my mi it is just one of those things I will have to get used to. It is just so exhausting when the times are bad. I sleep all night and all day and as the weather heats up it wont help either. Thanks for listening outlander. I do hope you are well and that life is being kind to you. I love you and consider you a dear friend. Love peaxxx

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor

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@Emelia8 Em xxx

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Emelia8Senior Contributor

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Pea 😊💞 @Bunniekins

@outlander 🌷

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Morning @outlander

Hoping you got some sleep last night and today goes well for you.

Lots of love and hugs hun 💞💞💞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Snowie

how are you today? Do you start ECT this week?
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