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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Wow very busy day tomorrow indeed! Its surprising how much we can fit into one day isnt it! @Sans911

Was a bad reaction last night. Nothing helped and lasted till mid morning to clear up. Somethings setting it off again tonight but not as bad. Not sure whats causing it tonight though. Possibly some hidden ingredient i didnt look carefully enough for.
Hopefully i get an allergenist appt soon. I handed in the refferal but they said it can take up to 3 or more weeks to get one

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Oh sorry I missed seeing the date @outlander.

All my appointments from last week were pushed forward from the week before. I drove a car that my brother purchased here in my city to Broome (far north or Pilbara). Mum came with me so we shared the driving. It was a nice trip, but we didn't see much along the way as it's a very long drive of almost 2200kms. We arrived in Broome late on Thursday 7th and flew home the next afternoon. My brother flew from the NT and drove home early on the Friday.

And then those appointments that were supposed to be last week got pushed to this week. That's because I went to Emergency about my wounds, and had to go to outpatients two days later.

So I just want them out the way now. I've had my bloods last week, so tommorow's gp appt is about those.

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Oh i see @Sans911 well at least some of those appts can be ticked off tomorrow and get them out of the way.

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I just realised that previous post is probably the most I've said in weeks @outlander. I've been wanting to talk, but so many things got in the way

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Yeah i think so to @Sans911 im glad your talking now though.
Do they think theres something wrong with your liver?

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Not sure @outlander regards liver. I've had quite elevated bloods for a bit now. Normally a couple are raised as I have a fatty liver, but this about 5 in total. My gp was so concerned a few weeks ago she sent me to emergency. That was an utter waste of time as they didn't take me or her seriously & didn't do the tests she wanted. I also had significant symptoms and felt quite unwell. I still have those symptoms but much less now.

The ultrasound is because of the blood results and my symptoms. I don't expect them to find anything untoward.

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That doesnt sound very good @Sans911 the ed really should have taken it seriously even if it turned out to be nothing.

Hopefully it is nothing but its not great feeling unwell so often without many answers

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Yeah, I didn't feel good at all lil Sis. I'm actually a bit concerned over my continuing levels of fatigue. I need to discuss that with my gp at some point. I'm a bit concerned I might have fibromyalgia.

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Good idea to discuss with your dr @Sans911
CFS might be something to look into as well
Tomorrow when your discussing your results it might be worth mentioning it to her then

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Too many other things to discuss or remember tommorow @outlander. I see her next week too (and most weeks) so I will leave until then. I have broached it in a phone conversation but she wanted to rule out other issues first. Fair enough I guess
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