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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor13 Jan 2021, 8:45 pm AEDT

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Hanging in there @Anastasia not overly well atm.
Yeah pretty busy but also not really im super tired so only basics being done atm.

How are you going

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor13 Jan 2021, 8:47 pm AEDT

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Sorry to hear that hun.

Doing basics is all that is required. Take care of you 🤗💞🌷

@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor13 Jan 2021, 8:48 pm AEDT

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Thanks @Anastasia

Are you going ok or not so much?

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor13 Jan 2021, 8:54 pm AEDT

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I'm okish.

I've been unwell and I'm still in a fair amount of pain which is frustrating. Hoping to come good soon hun @outlander .

Thank you for checking on me 😘💖

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outlanderSenior Contributor13 Jan 2021, 8:58 pm AEDT

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Im sorry to hear your unwel top @Anastasia do you think a gp checkup might be a good idea?

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outlanderSenior Contributor13 Jan 2021, 8:59 pm AEDT

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Sorry about spelling 🤦‍♀️

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor13 Jan 2021, 9:21 pm AEDT

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Never need to apologize for spelling with me @outlander 🔤✔️🌷

Don't think they'll do anything. He'll just say it's lupus again, take these pills and send me on my way based on past experience. I'll give it a few more days J guess and then see where I'm at 😩😵

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outlanderSenior Contributor13 Jan 2021, 9:24 pm AEDT

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Oh dear @Anastasia
It might be worth a check up though if your not picking up though. I do worry about you

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor13 Jan 2021, 9:40 pm AEDT

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You're a sweetheart. If I'm no better in a couple of days I'll have another blood test to see if lupus levels are worse. Fingers crossed @outlander . The truth is I really don't want to know ☹️

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outlanderSenior Contributor13 Jan 2021, 9:44 pm AEDT

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Yeah i understand. Its sometimes harder to know then not knowing @Anastasia im glad youll get checked up though if your not better in a few days

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