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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Sans911Senior Contributor09 Jan 2021, 1:02 am AEDT

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Oh how frustrating for you @Zoe7. You have had a lot happen in the last few months though. I hope soon, well b4 school returns, that some level of energy returns for you.

How cute - Toby in a doggie life jacket! 😊

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Zoe7Senior Contributor09 Jan 2021, 1:11 am AEDT

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I hope so too @Sans911 but not putting any pressure on it happening just yet. I have my sleep study in a couple of weeks (had to postpone it because we had a parent meeting on the same afternoon in the last week of term) then I didn't have the money the week after because of Christmas. The increase in meds have helped a little with the nightmares but not a lot with sleep. Back to the pdoc in 2 weeks as well so if I am still not sleeping we may need to adjust meds again.

Tobes does look cute in his little life jacket. He doesn't particularly like the water so having that on makes it easier for me to pick him up and put him back in the kayak ...it has a handle on the top lol

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jem80Senior Contributor09 Jan 2021, 1:36 am AEDT

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@Zoe7 @outlander @Sans911 @Emelia8 @Bow

sending you all hugs 🤗

take care and stay safe. Hopefully the fires can be contained.

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Zoe7Senior Contributor09 Jan 2021, 10:09 am AEDT

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@jem80

Good morning @outlander @Sans911 Hope there is some good in your days

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outlanderSenior Contributor09 Jan 2021, 2:57 pm AEDT

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@Sans911 @jem80

i hope you get to go kayaking today @Zoe7

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Zoe7Senior Contributor09 Jan 2021, 3:11 pm AEDT

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Not planning on taking the kayak out to about mid week @outlander Too windy at the moment and we are expecting some much warmer days so won't take Tobes out in the heat. Expecting lower 20s again mid week so a good time then.

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outlanderSenior Contributor09 Jan 2021, 3:18 pm AEDT

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Sounds good @Zoe7

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Eve7Senior Contributor09 Jan 2021, 6:10 pm AEDT

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How are you @outlander ?

💙💜💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor09 Jan 2021, 7:04 pm AEDT

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super tired @Eve7 ive been struggling to sleep and even worse get up. all my muscles are all fatigued as well. might need to try a suppliment to try and help out with some energy or something. i keep getting freezing cold skin but im sweat like its 100 degrees. its getting frustrating but will see how i go over the next few days. hopefully will pick up again.

how are you?

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Eve7Senior Contributor09 Jan 2021, 9:02 pm AEDT

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Oh @outlander I am sorry to hear this and I really wish you could get some answers sooner rather than later.

I think you’re amazing how you just keep going with all these horrible health issues.

I’m still up and down but I think I’m actually having more good days than bad days. My wrist is coming along ok but it’s so annoying not being allowed to drive.

My night time meds are working well so I’m happy about that and hope it stays that way..

Big hugs

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